One thing that fascinates me to death about this corner of the internet is the number of guys who, after learning how to attract women, get involved in sales. But I guess it makes perfect sense… after all, “selling yourself” is basically the nature of dating. Sure, there are different layers to attraction, but at […]
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A few years back, I heard an interesting story about the early struggles of the Chilean wine industry. Now, everyone knows today Chile makes a good bottle of wine (if too often, a bit “basic”) But most don’t realize that during it’s early commercialization in the 1980s, they had a bit of a problem. Namely, with their
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Full disclosure: I’ve got nothing against social media. It’s a huge ecosystem with a TON of benefits. I’ve met like-minded people I’d have never met otherwise, kept in touch with friends I probably would have lost, and reached tens of thousands of strangers who would have been out of reach. In fact, I don’t know where
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Did you know 10% of wine drinkers are responsible for 91% of wine sales in the United States? Yep, that’s right — “daily wine drinkers” are the sobs that prop up the wine industry with our need for a “fix” of grape juice. The other “marginal drinkers” who only indulge on special occasions make up
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Spend enough time in this corner of the world, and you’ll hear plenty of bitter men talk about how girls aren’t attracted to “nice guys.” Allegedly, they only like assholes — people who treat them like shit. *Not* the gentlemen who treat them well and take care of them. Is this true? Like most things
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PERSONA: THE SECOND PILLAR OF ATTRACTION (PART 2) In Part 1 we talked about the nature of Persona. Now we’re going to explore it in detail, how it interacts with the other Pillars of Attraction, and how it comes into play both when you’re single and in a relationship. Persona Converts Opportunities (And Strengthens The Other Pillars)
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I remember a few months back I was running a bootcamp. We were practicing “daytime approaches,” on this occasion, in a grocery store. I wanted my client to go up to a girl and “open” her with specific compliment. I explained exactly how to do it, and, like a diligent student, he saw a cute blond,
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Was talking to a client last about a girl he’s been seeing. He was telling me how they were going on dates, holding hands, kissing. He’d tell her stories, tease her. She’d laugh. All good, right? But, when it came time for sex, she had to stop… because the realization hit her that “I’m still
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Arnie over at the SigmaMind brought to my attention a thread about one “alpha provider’s” extreme move to stop girls from reneging on the hook up once they saw his nice apartment: I love this example because it outlines in full detail the absurd and (to a guy’s perspective) unfair nature of female sexual strategy.
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It’s always amusing for me to watch the “storylines” some of these marketing guys use to get guys to jump onboard their products. Consistently, they pander to man’s most base instinct: laziness. Can’t really blame them. (Even if their “hacks” won’t reproduce results in 99.9% of similar guys) Chances are, they’ve found the “exception” —
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