I’m writing this on a plane, traveling across Indian Ocean. By the time you guys get it, however, I’ll be at my final destination. Tasmania. I’ve always had a weird things for islands, particularly temperate or subarctic ones. The more remote the better. I always took this to be (one of many) weird things about …
Although I’m very tuned into the modern dating scene, with its trials and tribulations, I have a bit of a confession to make. It’s a silly thing, really. But I’m so focused on the “deep” end of things with most of my clients, I have forgotten of late to mention one of the most important …
I can tell you pretty directly what kind of people absolutely suck at having healthy relationships. It shouldn’t be surprising.In fact, it’s so boring that I feel stupid typing it. But, it bears mentioning… since 99% of the shit I see the monkeys throwing around the interwebs directly contradicts it. Everyone is so focused on …
The last email I sent out was a little nuts. I revealed some super nerdy, strange things about myself. The sort of things that aren’t (allegedly) good for sales. (A reminder: I spent 2 days trying to modify a WW2 strategy board game so it would be more historically accurate and “better.” Wait, why did …
It’s become apparent over the years that my style is quite different from most of the typical dating coaches. Despite the evolution of “the industry” away from negs, canned PUA routines, etc… people are still grounding themselves in the numbers game. More focus on strategy (physique, lifestyle, masculinity) vs tactics (peacocking, status-faking, game), but still …
“I admire hard work. But it isn’t my gift. And while I will continue to improve my discipline… it never will be. Only once I accepted this did I start to make money. Who understands why?” I tweeted this out the other day and promised to explain why on here (I save the best of …
So all these emails got pushed back because of a couple of incidents I was not expecting. First, I had to run to a wedding way sooner than anticipated. And so my email on work & money was left 30% unfinished. Second, I got poisoned at said wedding. Which completely took me out of commission …
About two years ago I wrote an article on DJ Khaled’s dating advice. It was a silly article. I made fun of DJ Khaled’s brains, while respecting his supreme confidence. (and considered what you really need to get women) But I’m realizing now that I was wrong. Not about the importance of shameless confidence… but about Khaled. It …
Friday night my wife was at a work function and I was a little “socialed” out, so I decided to stay at home, have a few gin and tonics, and watch a war movie. (I had planned on something sophisticated like The Thin Red Line, but I cheapened out and went for Saving Private Ryan. …
Last weekend was the biggest amount of time I’ve wasted in ages. I let a strange addiction take me over, something I had buried a long time before and thought I had passed. Axis and Allies. Not necessarily because I love to PLAY the game. Because I try to modify it. I want to make the game …
