January 2021

The Overcommunication Trap

Listen to a lot of mainstream or new age relationship advice, and they will tell you that the secret to a healthy relationship is to communicate. And truth be told, they’re right. Some level of “game playing” may have a role early on in a romantic dalliance — you don’t want to come on too strong after

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Cocky vs Cruel

Had a question crop up by @jaguarness the other day I wanted to get to, as it’s one many guys struggle with: My answer? Well, obviously it is a fine line, and getting it right is mostly a calibration issue. Guys who aren’t used to being a little cocky will likely overdo it at first

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