There are some subjects you are just not supposed to talk about when it comes to attraction. Discussion of techniques is expected. The need to calibrate your behavior based on context, encouraged. The role of intuition, begrudgingly acknowledged — though not much understood. Most people assume, to the extent “intuition” in an interaction with a […]
A reddit post made the rounds the other day on Twitter: Basically, this woman and her husband were both fat. It happened gradually since they got together. She was never slim, but she put on more weight over the years, and as it happened he became less affectionate and loving towards her. One day, on
had a client a few years back who wasn’t one of my better ones. Don’t get me wrong, he was a good guy and I liked him. But he’d disappear for long stretches of time. When we had calls, he’d forget them, or come in late. From a professional standpoint it was frustrating. I will
I saw a woman on the beach this weekend with a horribly disfigured face. I’m ashamed to admit I was curious why. Was it some genetic issue? Of course, you don’t stare, so I only gave discreet, peripheral glances. What was interesting about this woman though was she was clearly in a relationship. The man
I tweeted out something the other day that I don’t think people entirely understood, and wanted to elaborate on: When many people see something like this, it creates dissonance. They think “I don’t like girls who hurt me, that’s what dumb people do, this tweet is bullshit.” Others view it as pro-sadism or toxic dating;
This will probably be an exceptionally controversial email. But I want to open the door on this subject, because I find the commentary on female sexuality for the most regurgitated and unconsidered in this corner of the internet. First, let’s take a few well established observations and lay them out: Then let’s take two competing
First I want to start this email with a bit of gratitude. Even though things have gotten more absurd and toxic these past few years as the manosphere has become more mainstreamed, I STILL believe this community is fundamentally a positive place. It speaks to the dark realities of female behavior, and gives a voice
I am getting WAY too many guys recently lamenting their average-sized equipment. So I’m going to break down the reality of being well-endowed when it comes to dating MOST women. First, let’s use some SCIENTIFIC definitions based on numerous studies of penis size. Micro is less than 3 inches. Small is 3-4. Below average 4-5.
I’m writing my book at the moment and don’t have much time for emails, but this topic has been coming up a lot with clients… so I’m going to cut right to the chase. As I wrote about long ago, money does NOT generally create desire for women. It creates comfort. Gorgeous women bang dudes
Had an interesting conversation with a client the other day that brought up a subject I’ve rarely discussed. How much does a woman’s “first” (guy she lost her virginity to) leave an impression on her psyche? Is he that much harder for her to get over? Generally, this question emerges with a degree of concern.