Game vs Connection

Yesterday’s email was a hard hitter. And it really makes you wonder — if game lends itself towards validation-seeking, and you want connection instead of validation-seeking… what is the point of game? OK, maybe it helps you to “hook up.” But if you’re not interested in doing that, and you want to move right to

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The Truth About Daddy’s Girls

This is going to be an email that falls on a lot of deaf ears. The manosphere indoctrination on this topic is deep; challenging it is likely to trigger many of you. You’ve heard of “momma’s boys,” obviously. And, if you’re a man with any masculine instinct whatsoever, you don’t want to be one —

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“I worked with Pat on and off for two years over the pandemic. I consider myself lucky to view the last two years as transformative for me in a number of extremely positive ways, which I primarily attribute to the personal growth I achieved with Pat’s help. His deep understanding of male pathologies and the

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