January 2015


Giving a wholesale endorsement is something I do not feel comfortable with. Though you should not misunderstand me as meaning that there was something wrong with Pat’s service. Quite the contrary. What I mean is that I feel like I was “supposed” to work with him, for personal reasons I would rather not disclose here.

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Andrew G

“When I decided to work with Pat I was at the tail end of the year-long period of degeneracy and pleasure-seeking that constituted my early to mid-twenties. Pat was instrumental in steering me in the right direction. During the time I was working with him, I met my would-be wife. I knew very early on

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Nick P

“For the longest time, I’ve found myself being able to get girls but doing so superficially. I knew I wanted to understand women on a much deeper level and after consuming the majority of his blog, I knew Pat was the real deal. He helped me much more than just understand women but held a

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Jake V

“Working with Pat was a great experience. Pat has a very good understanding of social dynamics, and has suggestions and insights that go much deeper than the surface – but doesn’t neglect surface-level items either. Working with him, I was able to gain a deeper understanding of the right mindset and tools to attract women

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Brian K

“Pat is a self-described “Dating + Relationship Strategist”, but a more accurate description would be a “Soul Revealer” or something similar. Before speaking with Pat, my life had been whirling before my eyes, and I was going nowhere. I had always had an easy time attracting women, but the rest of my life was in

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“I approached Pat early on in my journey when I was attempting to stop being a nice guy. I was the nicest of nice guys. I am married to a smart and capable woman who ran roughshod over me at every turn, which was making my and my family’s life tedious and miserable. The dynamics

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“I’ve been working with Pat for nearly three months to keep my long-term relationship on track and improve my habits. Even with several sessions to go, I’m extremely happy with the results. My relationship is better because Pat has helped me get better. Bottom line: If you’re considering coaching, I highly recommend working with Pat.

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“Pat provides immediate empathy, switching dynamically from solving sexual frustrations to dating confusions to diving deep in childhood trauma and encapsulated frozen personality aspects and generation karmic entanglements, almost all-knowingly leading inquiring personalities with fatherly intuition. Pat is exceptionally aware and heartwarmingly compassionate, carefully guiding troubled souls to confront darkest corners of psyche with crystal

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“I never thought about the technicalities of what held me back in social interactions, but not only did you delve into the technicalities of my issues, you also helped me to understand what they meant within the bigger picture. For a long time, I was skeptical of how a call could help my personal life

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