October 2017 – Pat Stedman

Personality – The Third Pillar of Attraction (Part 1 – Pheromones + Intelligence)

October 30, 2017 / By Pat

PART ONE: PHEROMONES AND INTELLIGENCE Previously in our Three Pillars of Attraction series we capped off the Second Pillar of Attraction, Persona. Now we’re going to finally finish it by tackling Personality. The first thing to understand about Personality is that it is fundamentally different from the other two pillars of attraction. It operates in …

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How To Know If She’s The Right One

October 30, 2017 / By Pat

This is a topic I’ve written about in the past, but due to some recent demand I want to revisit. There is much going out these days about personality type-attraction (indeed, I’ve got a post dedicated to it coming out this week). The idea is that each personality type has one type in particular that …

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The Two Pillars Of Attraction?

October 20, 2017 / By Pat

In yesterday’s email, I talked about the dangers of Girl Game. Since then some guys have chimed in my Dynamic Men group. (MEN ONLY JOIN HERE) One thought that came up, and one I mostly concur with, is that the “elite” of girls in the looks category (aka “9s and 10s”) rarely possess solid girl …

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How To Know You’re Being Played

October 19, 2017 / By Pat

Yesterday I put out a brief thread on looks and game; I’m going to expand on that here. What prompted me to dive into this topic was a “traditional” girl account I’d seen around before, but recently came into my feed again. The girl is genuinely quite attractive, and interestingly for twitter dot com, not …

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2 Guys Act The Same, But Only One Is Attractive?

October 6, 2017 / By Pat

I’ve talked many times over the years about the difference between subcommunication vs communication – so much so that it is, in a way, my “niche.” Why do I care so much about it? Let’s return to my Twitter thread the other day about “self vs other orientation” with women and I’ll show you… One …

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The Manosphere Ghetto

October 4, 2017 / By Pat

Nabeel Azeez — the marketing savant who runs drop-kick copy — tweeted out a quote today I had totally forgotten, but got the gears in my mind turning. It was a comment Mike Cernovich made to Roosh V a few years before his big ascent into media stardom: “I’ve got to get out of the manosphere ghetto.” Most …

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