November 2024

Dirty Attraction

A reader writes in: Hi Pat. Hope this finds you well. I wanted to ask you about some interactions I had with a girl I know socially and how if at all to proceed. I will try and be as detailed as possible, but if you feel anything is missing, ask and I will try […]

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Inadvertent Breakthroughs

Last week I wrote a thread on the 3 areas men struggle in with women. I went into more detail about them in the thread, but these 3 areas: Confronting Fear, Expanding Awareness, and Operating In Good Faith cover every problem I’ve ever worked on with a man. Although there is obvious bleed over amongst

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Can You Forgive the Slut

I had the pleasure recently of doing a coaching call with a woman. Now, before we go into what we discussed — no, this is not something I expect I will be doing on the regular. I’m more open to it than before, and this woman presented a compelling exception. But I still have much

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The Election

The following is an excerpt from my upcoming book about my year in prison at Ft. Dix. Enjoy. ———— “Hallelujah!” “Trump!” “Confirmed!!” “God is good!!!” The messages poured into my phone. Trump won. It was a decisive victory. I had gone to bed early, but could see it coming the night before. All signs were

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What’s Next

Hello my friends. It’s been a year. I’m very happy to be back, writing to you again in real time after my release from prison (pictured above). We’re going to be talking about relationships today. But first, a little housekeeping. For those of you curious about my time in prison, we had a nearly 2

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