It used to be a common belief that you could not change your ability with women. It was a fixed quality. Talk to boomers for a few minutes and you’ll find that many of them still think this way.
This is one reason why the book “The Game” was such an important shift in societal consciousness.
Sure, it had tons of PUA garbage in there that would make any man cringe. But the fundamental belief that radiates through the whole book is that your skill with women is not fixed. You can get better with women over time.
Of course, not everyone thinks this way. But you probably have one or two friends who have shown an openness to talk about this stuff and work on it.
Which is why today, I’m asking you to forward one of my emails to them.
Whether they’re trying to figure out why they’re single, what’s causing their marriage to fall apart, or how it’s possible that they keep having the same problem in every relationship…
I can help.
My emails aren’t just newsletters – they’re consciousness shifters. Each one reveals a slice of what I teach my private clients about dating and relationships.
Look through the last 5 emails you got from me.
Why She Doesn’t Want Your Flowers – The hidden side of romance that most men don’t understand, often leading to bitterness over women’s unpredictability.
How To Be A King (And Get A Queen) – The true power of Trump’s king energy and the most common mistake I see in men who try to develop this on their own.
The Dating Apps Are Dead. Long Live Dating Apps – How single men can develop an approach to women that works regardless of what apps or trends are in vogue.
The Dangers of Being a Dating Rules Fundamentalist – The nuances of dealing with a woman cancelling a date, and how to reconcile the different philosophies around dating.
Sympathy for the Pervert – Psychoanalysis of a guy who tried to use religion/spirituality to compensate for his sins, but ended up blowing up his life.
Pick one that reminds you of your friend’s situation. Forward it to him with a simple:
“Thought you might find this interesting. Followed this guy for a while and found him helpful at explaining some things I’m working on. There’s a link at the bottom if you want to hear more from him.”
Or, send them this link to join my list directly:
That’s it.
No lecture or intervention required.
Just a simple email that could change his perspective and life.
Many men are too proud to take dating and relationship advice from their friends, but with this simple email, you are positioning yourself as a colleague who’s in the same boat.
I’ve had men tell me their lives changed because a friend forwarded them my content.
Sometimes all it takes is seeing your situation through a new lens.
Small actions create ripples. Your friend might thank you later.
-Pat
