People talk about Alpha and Beta a lot as ways to indicate a woman’s sexual responsiveness to a man. Generally this is shorthand for the “lover-provider” paradigm — the Alphas of course being the lovers, the Betas the providers. This is a useful heuristic in many ways (and a great rhetorical tool, especially if you’re […]
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My sister just sent her youngest off to school today. It’s her kid’s first day of first grade… and my sister’s first day of not having any children running around the house. You’d think she’d be happy, FINALLY some freedom. The reality? Acute depression. She loves babies, and was very attached to her last child.
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People have a tough time with nuance, so let’s get something out of the way before I begin this exploration of psychology: Just because I believe psychological attraction exists, I do not deny the biological motivations of women. In fact, I consider biology the deepest, most fundamental level of thinking in the brain. It is
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So as some of you know, I’m a pretty bad marketer. I produce content inconsistently, and even then focus too much on stuff that’s not exactly on brand… or isn’t geared enough towards people’s pain points to get them to buy. It’s strange I do these stupid things, because years ago I never had that
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Today I got a question from a reporter curious about my perspective on men dating women the same age as them. She was specifically asking me what the benefits are — and believe it or not they do exist — but I’m not one to gloss over context. Here’s the bulk of what I sent
Meet different people, you’ll realize they all like different things.Some are big on sports, others music, a handful ideas. We all only have a few interests in common. Food. Sleep. Physical comfort. (Maybe) Sex. And stories. Without exception, EVERYBODY is interested in stories. Stories are simply written into our DNA. Most of us in the
THE ULTIMATE IMPERATIVE If you’ve been around our corner of the internet, you’ve probably heard the term “feminine imperative” — coined by the highly influential and insightful Rollo Tomassi — thrown around. For the uninitiated, the feminine imperative is essentially the execution of a woman’s sexual strategy: to sleep with a man who is dominant
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As I’ve been investigating personality, the final pillar of attraction, I’ve come to realize a couple interesting things: One, your personality plays a pretty big role in who you attract (go figure) But two, it plays much LESS of a role the more psychologically developed you are. Interesting, no? When you’re personality isn’t developed, you
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The other day I read a long, personal email from Alex Allman, a thought leader when it comes to relationships (and a man I deeply respect). It was revealing on the nature of attraction and took on many topics, among them Pick Up. I won’t go into the full email as I actually found most
The other day I heard a story about a mutual friend — one that might ring true for many of you. It involves a girl — just on the cusp of 30, attractive, in shape, all around cool and fun. She’s been looking for a boyfriend for a while now — easily a year or
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