LEARN TO SAY NO AND DO WHAT YOU WANT It was a warm, fall Sunday afternoon – and we had arrived. Mike’s Seafood. The *best* seafood on the Jersey Shore. Kate was eager for some crab legs. Me, not so much. Normally, I’d be right there with her – but the tedious labor of extracting […]
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WHEN BUILDING SEXUAL TENSION BECOMES A MISTAKE I’ve recently received some flak for a position I’ve taken that “it can be better to wait to have sex (or even kiss) a woman on a first date.” Here’s why: A friend of mine had a GREAT date with a woman, filled with flirting, chemistry, etc. But he didn’t kiss her
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WHICH WAY TO APPROACH A GIRL IS BEST? The Pick Up world has long been divided between two ways to approach a girl: Direct and Indirect. And it’s about time we addressed them. So here’s the low down: Direct approaches are when you go up to a girl and express interest in her directly (duh).
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WHY YOU NEED AMBITION There is one thing all men that have “top tier” women have in common. It’s not looks. It’s not wealth. It’s not even talent. You guessed it… It’s ambition. Women are by their fundamental nature drawn to men who seek to rise above other men. This is an uncomfortable truth that
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HOW TO TELL IF YOU HAD A GOOD DATE A message the other day from one of my clients caught my attention: “As you know all my dates have been one and dones. I wouldn’t recognize when to attempt to pursue anything beyond a 1st date if it hit me in the face. What indicators
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AS YOU ARE: NICK SPARKS BOOK REVIEW I’ve had a lot of mentors in the dating world. But none changed my life quite so much as Nick Sparks. I trained under him in person and received perspective from him in an alumni group for years afterwords. Though he is by no means the only source
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WHAT IS FRAME? I talk a lot about Frame. Indeed, I even wrote an article on it here. But I’ve realized as I’ve gotten more and more questions about Frame that many only have a vague idea of what it is, let how to set it. So in the next series of articles I’m going
Develop Awareness. But Know It’s Only The Beginning. You can ask me anything you want to know about dating. You can read my posts, you can comment, you can tell me how it opened your mind up. You can message me. You can tell me your fears, problems, and aspirations. I can listen. You can
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THE FASTEST WAY TO GET RID OF APPROACH ANXIETY I once heard the story of some “legendary pick up artist” who completely obliterated approach anxiety. I forget his name, but according to the story he didn’t shower or shave, let his hair grow out long, and wore only what was (at least in my memory)
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HOW DO YOU MAKE AN IMPACT? FIND YOUR NICHE, IN DATING AND IN LIFE. I was sitting on my cramped little bed at Penn with her, talking about life. I was dreaming about things – big things I could accomplish. After all, I had great ideas. I was capable of so much. But when she
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