Men don’t usually talk about plastic surgery. When they consider looks, it’s mostly in the category of fitness. If you have a “meh” feature, or if your face looks a bit weathered — if you’ve got muscle, you look like a man. You’re good. But if there’s one cosmetic area guys tend to be particularly […]
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Something occurred the other day with a client, which in fact occurs quite commonly. They have some situation with a girl. Things aren’t good, there are all sorts of problems… (Or maybe things SEEM good, but there are all sorts of “subtle tells” going on under the surface that raise red flags.) Very often it
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As anyone who watches my periscopes knows, I enjoy my wine. It’s a great joy to my life… the diversity of producers, terroir, vintage, varietal, etc. produces endless flavors, and each bottle is a new experience. And yet, wine has its drawbacks… to the extent I am already cutting back on drinking it. Wine is alcohol, and
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This might be a weird one for some of you, but after tweeting this out this morning, thought I’d elaborate: As I get deeper and deeper into energy and intimacy, I’ve started to think more about what it means to be a man, and what it means to be a woman. There is a polarity
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An occasional concern I get from prospective clients is whether there is going to be “actionable advice” in our workings together. They know I get “deep work” and know my stuff about women… but will I tell them specifically what to do and say to a girl? Are they gonna get the right homework assignments, and systems
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A lot of you guys know Nash from @DaysOfGame_com on Twitter. (If you don’t, he’s one of my most recommended follows, so get on that) Good guy. SMART guy. I met him in NYC a few months back for some lunch and wine… we talked for hours, and if we didn’t have appointments we could have spent
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I tweeted something out the other week: Broke: All Women Are Like That Woke: All Women Aren’t Like That Bespoke: All Women Are Like That *In Their Generation* I kid, of course. But there is truth in it… as you might surmise. Zoomer culture is different compared to other generations. And while my clientele remains
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Was exposed to an interesting thread the other day worth commenting on: Unsurprisingly, I don’t really disagree with the fundamental content of the thread. As my good friend Hutton has said: “the sexes win or lose together” Anyone promoting better understanding between men and women — with acceptance of differences, and without judgment — is a
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Very often I’ve been asked what books have influenced my thinking around women. And I feel like people have been rather disappointed by my response. You see, I don’t read that much. At least not in a “formal” sense. Ok, I read a TON. But my material is diffuse — there’s no real organization to this.
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A long time reader was not super happy about an email I put out a few days back about players mostly getting their notches from promiscuous girls: I’m a little taken aback by the latest email. Have you read Sex at Dawn? Not sure I agree with all the analysis on the latest email from
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