I can tell you pretty directly what kind of people absolutely suck at having healthy relationships. It shouldn’t be surprising.In fact, it’s so boring that I feel stupid typing it. But, it bears mentioning… since 99% of the shit I see the monkeys throwing around the interwebs directly contradicts it. Everyone is so focused on […]
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It’s become apparent over the years that my style is quite different from most of the typical dating coaches. Despite the evolution of “the industry” away from negs, canned PUA routines, etc… people are still grounding themselves in the numbers game. More focus on strategy (physique, lifestyle, masculinity) vs tactics (peacocking, status-faking, game), but still
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About two years ago I wrote an article on DJ Khaled’s dating advice. It was a silly article. I made fun of DJ Khaled’s brains, while respecting his supreme confidence. (and considered what you really need to get women) But I’m realizing now that I was wrong. Not about the importance of shameless confidence… but about Khaled. It
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A common adage in the dating scene is “opposites attract, but they don’t stay together” There’s a lot of truth to this expression. “Opposite” personalities are generally incompatible… they interact with the world in different ways. So while relationships are possible, they aren’t natural. And yet, such people often get together. What gives? Nothing too crazy,
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Yesterday we talked about when and how your girl will “jump ship.” Today we’ll talk about how to make sure that essentially will never happen. Let me tell you a story about a friend of mine. He’s a decent looking guy, in shape, has great game… and at the time had a successful, but still
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“Woke Red Pill Twitter: You’d better keep side chicks because your GF that is madly in love with you is going to leave if a billionaire flirts with her at a coffee shop” – @therealrainfall I love it when a topic I’m going to write about shows up in my timeline. Good inspiration fodder. There’s
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I was doing some “dreamcasting” this morning about where I’d like to be in the future. It’s a good exercise, especially if you want to figure out what you value in life. (Like all ENTPs, this doesn’t come naturally to me) One thing that’s been coming up for me recently is sailing. I don’t know
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Coming at least somewhat from “red pill” circles — and yet being a significant critic of the red pill ethos — I’m a bit of a contradiction, at least at first glance. Outsiders think I’m red pill because my views don’t align with the mainstream. “Insiders” call me an apostate because I’ve attacked key figures
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I was tagged in an interesting story the other day. Basically, a very talented clarinetist got into his dream school, but his girlfriend — who didn’t want him to go away from her — pretended to be the school and sent him a “rejection” email. Meanwhile, she pretended to be him and sent a rejection to
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We mentioned briefly yesterday why you can’t trust insecure girls. But we didn’t talk about why guys date them anyway. It all comes back to one of my favorite topics: Girl Game. Men are naturally stronger than women, and have a different role to play in the species. Every man deep down feels the desire to protect.
