Yesterday we talked about authenticity, and how many are just play-acting the trait. But even genuine authenticity isn’t the be-all-end all in attraction. Indeed… if it’s not packaged correctly, it can even be a liability. The reason? Authentic people act boring. Now, are they ACTUALLY boring? I don’t know. A lot of people seem boring, […]
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It’s no shock to people that I enjoy my drink. Alcohol is fun, though truth be told its the culture around it I love. (Why 95%+ of what I drink is wine, unless I am in Poland or Mexico, when it’s vodka or tequila shots respectively) And so, I’ve had my share of “hangovers” and
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I think I mentioned the other day about artists and adventurers. I consider them both to be two sides of the same coin. One an internal expression, the other external. But same energy. Same idea, in fact, of expression. Which is the key here for us today. If you’ve ever wondered why high-powered, successful men get
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We’ve talked about hard women the last few days, this will be our last exploration for the time being. I want to talk about a strange but growing phenomenon in the west… Perhaps you’ve heard of them. They certainly got some press. Cougar cruises. Basically, young guys getting comped vacations with old women, to keep
We spoke yesterday about hard men and soft women. But what about hard women? Do they have a place, romantically? The answer: It depends. (a frustrating answer, I know) We’ll talk about one growing niche for such women tomorrow, but historically they’ve actually been quite important… at least in militaristic societies. These societies cultivate hardness.
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Yesterday I mentioned a client had a kissing mishap with a girl. But what was more interesting was what transpired earlier. You see, my compadre found himself in a situation before with this girl, and didn’t know what whether she liked him or not. Truth be told, it can be tough to see such things.
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I was having a chat with a client the other day, and he brought up something funny. So there’s a girl he’s interested in, and she’s interested in him as well. (though he didn’t see these signs before we worked together, a benefit of yours truly) Even so, he fumbled their next hang out… because
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In passing, yesterday we mentioned “gamer chicks” and how guys need to dominate that domain to get girls, seeing how few of them there are. But there’s another aspect to this I want to explore, so you can become more aware. Specifically, that of “thot market” — and where it allocates thots. Some of this
We talked about nerds yesterday, and we’re going to talk some more about them today. I’ll cut to the chase: Some nerds have an advantage with seduction over others. I just need to be honest. The nerds that do best with women are ones that are curious about all topics under the sun. Generalists just
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Yesterday I made mention of facts and inferences being very valuable in conversing and attracting women. (aka, being a nerd can get you laid) Enticing, I’m sure, for many of my (inevitably nerdy) readership. After all — who else would follow a guy who talks about deep psychology and social dynamics? But the fact is
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