Yesterday I put out a little thread on tactics / strategy in the realm of Persona. We’re going to explore this a little deeper now as it involves attraction dynamics. Recall the rule of attraction: men and women are attracted to opposite energies. Masculine desires feminine and vice versa. This is an important thing to internalize, […]
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PART 2: PSYCHOLOGICAL ATTRACTION As we discussed in Part 1, pheromones and intelligence lay the ground work for Chemistry to occur. But it is psychology itself that brings two people together, and that is what we will explore now. Our minds are wired in distinct ways, and that wiring determines whether we are drawn to
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PART ONE: PHEROMONES AND INTELLIGENCE Previously in our Three Pillars of Attraction series we capped off the Second Pillar of Attraction, Persona. Now we’re going to finally finish it by tackling Personality. The first thing to understand about Personality is that it is fundamentally different from the other two pillars of attraction. It operates in
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In yesterday’s email, I talked about the dangers of Girl Game. Since then some guys have chimed in my Dynamic Men group. (MEN ONLY JOIN HERE) One thought that came up, and one I mostly concur with, is that the “elite” of girls in the looks category (aka “9s and 10s”) rarely possess solid girl
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Yesterday I put out a brief thread on looks and game; I’m going to expand on that here. What prompted me to dive into this topic was a “traditional” girl account I’d seen around before, but recently came into my feed again. The girl is genuinely quite attractive, and interestingly for twitter dot com, not
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People talk about Alpha and Beta a lot as ways to indicate a woman’s sexual responsiveness to a man. Generally this is shorthand for the “lover-provider” paradigm — the Alphas of course being the lovers, the Betas the providers. This is a useful heuristic in many ways (and a great rhetorical tool, especially if you’re
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My sister just sent her youngest off to school today. It’s her kid’s first day of first grade… and my sister’s first day of not having any children running around the house. You’d think she’d be happy, FINALLY some freedom. The reality? Acute depression. She loves babies, and was very attached to her last child.
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People have a tough time with nuance, so let’s get something out of the way before I begin this exploration of psychology: Just because I believe psychological attraction exists, I do not deny the biological motivations of women. In fact, I consider biology the deepest, most fundamental level of thinking in the brain. It is
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So as some of you know, I’m a pretty bad marketer. I produce content inconsistently, and even then focus too much on stuff that’s not exactly on brand… or isn’t geared enough towards people’s pain points to get them to buy. It’s strange I do these stupid things, because years ago I never had that
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Today I got a question from a reporter curious about my perspective on men dating women the same age as them. She was specifically asking me what the benefits are — and believe it or not they do exist — but I’m not one to gloss over context. Here’s the bulk of what I sent
