One of my favorite books (not sure if I’ve mentioned it before) is The Unbearable Lightness of Being, by Milan Kundera. Milan is a Czech writer, and as would be befitting, his book takes place (mostly) in Prague, on the eve of the Soviet invasion in ’68. The book is great on multiple levels.Gives you […]
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Yesterday on twatter I put out a quote on “Ethical Seduction” ***Ethical seduction: Understanding someone’s weak spots… and causing them to love you for helping them overcome them.*** Some people wondered whether this was no different than just being kind. Spoiler alert: It is. Not to diminish such gestures, but anyone can be kind. It doesn’t
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Personality work is polarizing in the dating community. Some people swear by it. Some write it off entirely. A major reason for this divide comes down to fear. For instance: Many people think personality is the be-all-end-all in romance because they are worried about coming across as sexist, and think personality conveniently writes-off gender. “People
Another day, another spat with some of these RP guys. I know some of you love the drama, some of you hate it. I expect it’ll be over soon-ish, but since our audiences overlap, don’t be surprised if it takes some time for the separation to be clear and complete… Anyway, one thing I wanted
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The other day I tweeted a thread about The Red Pill (TRP) applying primarily to damaged women, and won’t work for emotionally healthy girls… though indicated within it that *most* women are indeed damaged, and that the number of these is growing. Subsequently, a follower made an observation: “This point seems undermined by your admission
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I was talking to a (potential) client recently about an interesting thing: trust and relationships. (If you want to consider working with me, go here: www.patstedman.com/application) Truth be told, it’s not something I’ve gone over too much with clients to date. Most guys who work with me want to learn game, want to get their minds
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The other day there were a couple of great comments by Avaritia (@ethenes) and Randy Treibel on something that’s been a real fascination of mine recently: Cluster B (personality disorder) women… and the men who date them. A few highlights here: “if you ever want a cluster B to leave you alone, kill them with kindness.
I work with a wide range of clients from all around the world. It’s made me realize the ways men are both the same, in how women orient them — and different — in personalities, values, backgrounds. Ergo, something I have to be constantly aware of is not to project my own beliefs onto others.
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A couple of you have been asking me what I think about the #MeToo movement and the sexual harassment allegations flying around. I know it’s a hot topic, and I probably should have said more on it earlier — content 101 is discuss what’s relevant. Yet for the most part, I’ve avoided giving comment. The
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As many of you might remember, I’ve got a thing for DJ Khaled. The dude absolutely fascinates me. Got to be one of the dumbest celebrities yet one of the most authentic and in-tune with himself. Anyway, another riff on the guy. One of his popular (albeit not sensational) songs is “No New Friends.” Basically, the
