Merry Christmas Eve my friends – just a short email for you today. As many of you know already, my wife had a baby last week… so took a bit of a hiatus on writing. We will be resuming on the 26th. In the meantime, if you’re interested in hearing the story of my business […]
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Something I’ve been thinking about after noticing some drama on the Twitter TL is how truly vindictive women can be when they don’t get their way. “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned” is a famous saying for a reason. You need to be careful at the lengths a woman will go to get
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Those of you familiar with my work should be familiar at this point with my work on the three pillars of attraction. (I gave a great speech on it in 2019 at the 21 Convention – if you missed it, check it out) However, if you’ve been following me recently on twitter, you’d also see
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Got trolled a little today after I made the following tweet: The guy deleted, but the gist was pretty simple: “you have more important things to do than her, pay attention to her only when she behaves” For the record, I am not necessarily opposed to the above. There is truth to this, and its applicability
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Men don’t usually talk about plastic surgery. When they consider looks, it’s mostly in the category of fitness. If you have a “meh” feature, or if your face looks a bit weathered — if you’ve got muscle, you look like a man. You’re good. But if there’s one cosmetic area guys tend to be particularly
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One of the interesting things about this business is how people’s emotions sabotage them. For instance, had a guy recently reach out for coaching. He just got out of a serious relationship — a girl who in many ways felt like “the one.” We agreed to do the “basic coaching” package together to do a
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A reader writes in: hi pat, I have a hypothetical question for you. well its not hypothetical its about me personally, nothing to do with dating more with character building. Im having a really hard time being happy/finding happiness, its from within yes, i believe but i make others so happy and they love being
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Something occurred the other day with a client, which in fact occurs quite commonly. They have some situation with a girl. Things aren’t good, there are all sorts of problems… (Or maybe things SEEM good, but there are all sorts of “subtle tells” going on under the surface that raise red flags.) Very often it
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As anyone who watches my periscopes knows, I enjoy my wine. It’s a great joy to my life… the diversity of producers, terroir, vintage, varietal, etc. produces endless flavors, and each bottle is a new experience. And yet, wine has its drawbacks… to the extent I am already cutting back on drinking it. Wine is alcohol, and
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This might be a weird one for some of you, but after tweeting this out this morning, thought I’d elaborate: As I get deeper and deeper into energy and intimacy, I’ve started to think more about what it means to be a man, and what it means to be a woman. There is a polarity
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