As usual for most mornings, today I woke up, and after some light reading and journaling checked twitter to see what dumb stuff was going on in the world (and what clever takes my mutuals had to say about it). But to my surprise, today in my DMs weren’t questions about some situation with so-and-so’s […]
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A reader writes in: Hi Pat, I just had a major realization, that I’ve been living (to some extent) within the “frame” of a close male friend. E.g. seeking validation, following his lead in things. #nohomo Have you ever written about this, or have tips for how to build your own frame? — I’ve written about ditching
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A reader the other day asked a very important question: Do you have thoughts on what I can do to improve relationship with my parents? I have always had a strained relationship with them and recently moved out to begin to stay with my friend (I’m never pulling my weight nor living up to potential).
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A reader writes in: “Pat, I went through your masterclass in last few days and have a question. How does one improve their self-esteem or self-worth in an unconscious way? I’m consciously aware that I’m way more valuable than I believe myself to be, but I undersell myself a lot. I unconsciously do that.” —
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A lot of you guys know Nash from @DaysOfGame_com on Twitter. (If you don’t, he’s one of my most recommended follows, so get on that) Good guy. SMART guy. I met him in NYC a few months back for some lunch and wine… we talked for hours, and if we didn’t have appointments we could have spent
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PS Go here for my article on the 3 Pillars of Attraction.
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Considered not sending this out, as it’s the kind of email spam filters block… But I was sent a study the other day I thought might be useful to some of you. The topic? Dick size… and how to increase it naturally and easily. Even as I write that I laugh… that’s pretty much what
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Very often I’ve been asked what books have influenced my thinking around women. And I feel like people have been rather disappointed by my response. You see, I don’t read that much. At least not in a “formal” sense. Ok, I read a TON. But my material is diffuse — there’s no real organization to this.
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Got a question from a subscriber the other day, more or less asking the above. It’s a bit of a general question, and so is probably better answered in a blog post (maybe I will create one, one of these days…) But anyway, to spitball… The most important things you NEED to do after a
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Let’s cut to the chase:I see a lot of LARPing online from accounts about their prowess with women. These accounts — who generally have some super-unique actor, playboy, or suit avis — talk about all sorts of things that “elite” men (themselves included of course) do. Things like: – have threesomes each weekend– attract every
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