Received the following request for this topic the other day: It’s an interesting phenomenon, and a lot of guys have mixed feelings on the topic. I won’t go into too much depth here… (It’s one of the topics I cover extensively in my course, which BTW is set for release Monday November 25th…) But a […]
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GaryPUA put out the following interesting, and very accurate, observation the other day: The tweet speaks for itself, and I don’t need to much explain it. But I do want to elaborate so you can glean something a bit deeper out of it. When a girl is laughing at everything you say, she DOES want
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Yesterday the great daygamer Nash had an interesting thread on the different types of “mindsets” guys have when they daygame… and their commensurate results. He noted that guys who feel like they NEED to approach do poorly, guys who WANT to see some results… but guys who approach “out of choice” do the best. He’s
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One of the big divides between “red pill” / pick up communities and the mainstream is about age. Which age of a girl is appropriate for a guy to date, and which isn’t? A lot of people, older women of course, but even other middle aged guys with daughters… find the impulse to date “low”
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One of the key things you NEED to understand if you’re ever going to succeed with women is that attention is everything to them. It’s what they chase. To the extent they care about wealth, it’s because money grants them more attention. Diamonds — attention. Fashion — attention. Attention gets to the heart of the female identity
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Quick little story I wanted to share with you guys. As many of you know, there’s been a few ripples of problems in the UK with cold approaching. Two court cases are ongoing right now, involving guys who made women uncomfortable during their approach. (For what it’s worth, while the one involving a young anxious
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So the other weekend comi-con hit NYC, and I found myself at their official afterparty. Full disclosure: I know absolutely nothing about comics. Seen barely any superhero movies, the genre just doesn’t do all that much for me. But, a friend of mine was at the main event, dressed up as “fat thor” (absolutely incredible
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A reader writes in: Hey Pat Morning mate. I was reading some of your stuff on your webpage on dynamics I understand it from an early POV or mid POV in a relationship, but im questioning if suppose you’re in a long relationship +7-10 yrs what happens if embers die down how does a man rekindle
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So end of last week while talking about the extremely fucked up court case in the UK re: a socially anxious kid getting prosecuted for talking to a girl, I promised I’d tell a tale about a similar experience yours truly went through. An experience that helped me to understand just how the above court case
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