Hope you enjoyed yesterday’s breakdown of the men in Sixteen Candles. But there was another element I wanted to mention from the film… Because while it’s fun and useful to talk about archetypes, the reality is that movies are a snapshot in time. They don’t capture an individual’s growth, or the evolution of a relationship. They take a moment, […]
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David had me on the arensal podcast – we go deep into this blog post and more. Check out the show!
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Listen to a lot of mainstream or new age relationship advice, and they will tell you that the secret to a healthy relationship is to communicate. And truth be told, they’re right. Some level of “game playing” may have a role early on in a romantic dalliance — you don’t want to come on too strong after
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As you all know, I’m a very curious person. In an effort to really understand (and thus serve) men in their relationships with women and themselves, I’ve perused many different communities. One of which are the “spirituality” or “new age” ones. Now, not going to rag on these people too much. They are very sweet
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Something I’ve been thinking about after noticing some drama on the Twitter TL is how truly vindictive women can be when they don’t get their way. “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned” is a famous saying for a reason. You need to be careful at the lengths a woman will go to get
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Those of you familiar with my work should be familiar at this point with my work on the three pillars of attraction. (I gave a great speech on it in 2019 at the 21 Convention – if you missed it, check it out) However, if you’ve been following me recently on twitter, you’d also see
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Got trolled a little today after I made the following tweet: The guy deleted, but the gist was pretty simple: “you have more important things to do than her, pay attention to her only when she behaves” For the record, I am not necessarily opposed to the above. There is truth to this, and its applicability
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Was talking to a client the other day about some big changes going on in his life. In short: things are going well. After many years of degeneracy and dating some insanely toxic women, he’s turning his life around. He’s gotten more involved with his faith, and is now on track to marry a beautiful,
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Bit of a weird email for you today.But I wanted to talk about something that’s been occurring more and more in my practice. Something that’s very strange to discuss for many, and indeed may not appeal to most. And yet, has proven very useful to those open enough towards it. Those of you who have
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