Relationships
How The Manosphere Hurts Men
Ok, let’s be fair before I go into this. We all know the manosphere has been a “net benefit” to the community of guys out there. It’s shown men how to look better, make money, and be attractive. It’s even beginning to teach some higher level spiritual lessons, and build the leaders — both of
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Why Women Leave Attractive Men
In the last email we talked about women who want to “be married” but don’t think so much about being a wife. And yet there needs to be an addendum to this… as men have their own problem in this department. Hang around the manosphere long enough and you’ll begin to think women want a
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Does She Want To Be A Wife, Or Just Get Married?
The magnificent Shawn T Smith made a very interesting comment the other day: Which inspired me to produce my own version: Does she want to get married, or does she want to be a wife? Something not very polite to talk about these days. Sounds misogynistic just stating it. “What do you mean, that women have to act
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Why You Want To Leave Your Relationship
It’s a pretty frequent problem you hear a couple years into a romance. Guy’s with a great girl. But as the prospect of commitment looms, he struggles with “pulling the trigger.” He starts to fantasize about other girls… or at least the idea of them. “Maybe I just need to bang a few more…” The only
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Is She Really “Too Tired” To Have Sex?
Tweeted out something very banal the other day, yet unsurprisingly I suppose it hit a nerve: Because I received a slew of responses from the usual anon accounts with some old statue or painting as their avi — or maybe if you’re lucky a set of abs — emphasizing the usual “women are never too exhausted
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Are There Healthy Fantasies?
Received a question the other day re: one of my tweets: A lot of the nitty-gritty of this confusion comes down to definitions. So let’s attack this term “fantasy.” What does it really mean? I do not think it is useful to associate it with masculine and feminine ideals. Ideals are behaviors to strive for.
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The Easiest Way To Last Longer
That’s right, we’ve got a sex email for you today. Want to reveal some stuff from a conversation I had with a friend the other weekend, as it’s a question I get very often from clients: “I can’t last very long, how can I change this?” Well, while there are a lot of psychological reasons
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Audrey vs Marilyn
Been on a classic movie bender as of late. And I found myself all the way back in the 50s, comparing the two iconic actresses of that era… Audrey Hepburn and Marilyn Monroe. Very different archetypes of women… which we will be exploring shortly. What’s interesting is that Marilyn has been promoted more in the
