Dating

The Double Edge of Seduction

Was chatting with a client the other day when an amusing yet tragic scenario came up. First a little backstory: My client is pretty good with women. Attractive dude, knows game and how to flirt. Girls often take an interest in him, and he tends to encourage them by “pulling back” exactly when he needs […]

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Nice Guys Strike Back

Been observing something the last couple of months that’s incredibly fascinating. When I saw it the first time, I considered it an exception. When I saw it the second time, a curiosity. Now I’ve seen it 5+ times among my clients and it seems to be gaining speed. And so I’m taking this shift very

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Believe All Women?

My good friend Hutt had quite the observation the other day: Makes you wonder why no one talks about this. Because it’s one of the more common phenomena among women. Women — with very few exceptions — go along with what the dominant social influence in their lives is. For most women, that’s mainstream culture;

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Masculinity and Tension

A new year, a new manosphere motif. First it was cold showers, then black coffee and rare steaks. Now the current fad among the gentlemen on Twitter seems to be semen retention. The idea going around is that “holding it in” isn’t simply good from a health standpoint (there are a lot of nutrients in

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Why To Steal A Man’s Girl

Short email for you today. But wanted to give a coda to a series I began back in February. Part 1: Should You Steal Another Man’s Girl? Part 2: *How* To Steal Another Man’s Girl If you were wondering what happened, well… My client got the girl. And now they are married and expecting the first addition

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How A Woman Opens Up A Man

Put out this viral tweet about a month ago, and the amazing Dean Abbott asked me to elaborate: No surprise, it appears everyone in the manosphere understands that men give structure to women. Women are chaotic — women are nature. Men are order, they provide them with the required guidance to help them grow. Like civilization, they build

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The #1 Girl Game Failure

Any guy who’s seriously dated around knows that women have some mixed feelings when it comes to other women. Obviously, they want their guy to themselves. But seeing other women express interest in him tends to trigger “competition anxiety.” Countless men have confirmed a little dose of this jealousy can lead to some incredible sex,

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