In Defense of Rollo Tomassi As many, if not most of you, know — I’ve had a long, not-so-cordial history with Rollo Tomassi. Those who aren’t caught up can see an anthology of our history here, dating back to summer 2017: Pt 1: The Ultimate Imperative Pt. 2: The Way Forward Pt. 3: What Is […]
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Recently I had the distinct displeasure of reading a piece in Harper’s Bazaar on why men have no friends. I suppose I should be happy about the article. Annoying rhetoric and condescension aside, it does bring awareness to the very real lack of male friendship these days. Basically — it argues as a result of
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It goes without saying there is an enormous amount of debate within the dating world about “how to attract women.” Everybody’s got a different philosophy. Some swear by game, and think it’s a requirement to get women. Some believe you need to have a ripped body and fat wallet. And still others believe things “just
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I know you’ve heard it before: “Don’t settle.” It’s such a truism even your average person, who probably settles for everything in life, will give you this golden piece of advice. And it comes from a good place, no doubt. Settling means you don’t get the best. And you deserve the best, right? Well, maybe
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Now, if you’ve been following along, you know by now I’m not one of those “red pill” guys who is constantly going off about modern women. And unlike many, I’m not anti-marriage. But as I’ve propped myself more and more into the “serious relationship” space… and observed the long-term marriages of many close to me…
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Well here were are, back to blogging after a 9 month hiatus. It feels good to be back. But the break was sorely needed. The “red pill wars,” as history will call them, drained me of long form content. I needed a place to play around with ideas, reduce the pressure… and the daily email
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Another day, another big Twitter argument with “that” corner of the internet. And all because of a little bitty quote of mine from Monday’s email Rivelino (@alpharivelino) sent out: “Ethical players must stay away from decent girls, or must change their ways and date them seriously. You are scum otherwise, no matter what you tell
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Wanted to piggie back of yesterday’s email while it’s still on people’s minds, and talk about ways women “cheat loyally.” It’s something people don’t talk too much about — for understandable reasons. It’s still cheating, even if the reasons for it are complex. But understanding how some of this stuff works on the “deep end”
Let it be known that despite my attacks against Red Pill dogmatism, I’m no dogmatic myself. Even women I’d love to classify as “high quality” do devious things, especially in an emotional state. For instance, a story that happened years ago with a (now-ex) friend of mine (“J”) and his girlfriend (“H”). It begins at
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Caught up with an old pal the other week and I was interested to hear a little update in his romantic life. So my friend has been close to this girl for years. She’s a sweet girl, and attractive. Early on he liked her. But though they flirted a bit, in the end she’d always
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