You know, it’s strange. My name is Patrick. I’m at least a third Irish, according to my DNA (And I certainly look it) But St. Patrick’s Day? Wasn’t too big of a fan. Especially, oddly enough, when it came to dating. Despite ALL of the things ostensibly stacked in my favor, St. Patrick’s Day never […]
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In Part 1 we discussed the essence of seduction and dominance, how to use them in pursuit of power and attraction, and modern culture’s role. But are seduction and dominance equal? Or is one obviously better? Seduction vs Dominance: Which Should You Choose? It’s an unpleasant fact for most in the manosphere to hear, but if you
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It’s been awhile, but when I got involved in the dating community its philosophy towards attracting women was pretty straightforward, if overcomplicated. All the routines, strategies to clandestinely create good impressions, and mystery-creation all revolved around one philosophy: turning the tables on women. If you could make a gorgeous girl other guys were drooling over drop everything to pursue you, you
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As many of you know, there’s a concept sweeping the nation right now. College kids, terrified by having their precious little views violated, have taken to demanding a “safe space” on campus. In other words, a room where no one who disagrees with them (or who represents someone disagreeable to them) can enter. To make
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As a dating coach, I am loathe to tell guys not to go out and meet girls. After all, most guys struggling with women are just LOOKING for rationalizations to stop themselves from putting themselves out there. But truth be told, some guys actually need to be told a little something counterintuitive…Chill. Stop practicing approaching women.Stop
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7 Steps To Get What You Want In Dating I am inundated daily with complaints from men and women about the opposite sex. Women are upset they can’t find a good man… or one they’re attracted to. Men are upset they can’t find an available woman… or one who treats them right. Everybody is straight-up
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Today I did a podcast with Nabeel Azeez of Becoming The Alpha Muslim on “How To Reignite Your Sex Life.” Nabeel’s audience is young Muslim men who are looking to reclaim their masculinity in the context of their faith, so he invited me on to talk about frame, relationship dynamics, and the biggest one of all –
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Subcommunication and The Art of Mixed Messages A few weeks ago I got dinner with a friend. She was dating a guy, but things were not progressing towards exclusivity fast enough. She asked me what to do. (I don’t generally “switch teams,” but for my friends, anything) I suspected the guy genuinely liked her and
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A few things heard commonly in relationships (or at wedding ceremonies) are variations of the following: “I’m just so grateful to be with my best friend” “You’re my best friend, I love you” “I love that I’m marrying my best friend” Now, don’t get me wrong — I’m not trying to be a dick to
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Recently yours truly had an article of his rejected by an esteemed magazine. Now, no need to get our your torches and pitchforks out in my defense. They’re good people, and I’m OK. In fact — I was expecting it to happen — even though the content was great. You see, even though *I* like
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