A common adage in the dating scene is “opposites attract, but they don’t stay together” There’s a lot of truth to this expression. “Opposite” personalities are generally incompatible… they interact with the world in different ways. So while relationships are possible, they aren’t natural. And yet, such people often get together. What gives? Nothing too crazy, […]
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One of the interesting things about relationships are the little habits and patterns people establish over time.Inside jokes, rituals — things that may “kill” the honeymoon phase of novelty, but over time become a source of comfort and grounding. Unfortunately, most develop “bad” habits too — cycles that lead to fights and hurt feelings. I
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Gonna cut right to the point today, since it’s already late in the day (things have been crazy around here, was up to 5AM last night with work). It seems that like many things, relationships have taken a turn towards extremes. Many people can’t even have a relationship, the experience is so bad. Most who
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Yesterday we talked about when and how your girl will “jump ship.” Today we’ll talk about how to make sure that essentially will never happen. Let me tell you a story about a friend of mine. He’s a decent looking guy, in shape, has great game… and at the time had a successful, but still
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“Woke Red Pill Twitter: You’d better keep side chicks because your GF that is madly in love with you is going to leave if a billionaire flirts with her at a coffee shop” – @therealrainfall I love it when a topic I’m going to write about shows up in my timeline. Good inspiration fodder. There’s
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Gonna harp a little more on the hypergamy fixation again today. Not, as I’ve repeatedly emphasized, because it’s not true. Because there’s something a lot of people miss when they talk about it. Most consider hypergamy an indication of female amorality. I think you can argue this, fairly. But then you have to also look
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Coming at least somewhat from “red pill” circles — and yet being a significant critic of the red pill ethos — I’m a bit of a contradiction, at least at first glance. Outsiders think I’m red pill because my views don’t align with the mainstream. “Insiders” call me an apostate because I’ve attacked key figures
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My wife’s surprise for me was something special this past weekend. She contacted pretty much all of my friends, some of whom she hadn’t even met yet. (Yes, we encourage each other to hang out with our respective friends, not necessarily including each other) Which really blew me away. How did she even know how
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Today is an exciting day for me. My 30th birthday is in just a few days, and my wife has been planning some monumental surprise for me starting in the next 10 minutes. I didn’t really plan on doing anything, since I thought I would be in France for it a couple of months ago
We spoke yesterday about hard men and soft women. But what about hard women? Do they have a place, romantically? The answer: It depends. (a frustrating answer, I know) We’ll talk about one growing niche for such women tomorrow, but historically they’ve actually been quite important… at least in militaristic societies. These societies cultivate hardness.
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