Let it be known that despite my attacks against Red Pill dogmatism, I’m no dogmatic myself. Even women I’d love to classify as “high quality” do devious things, especially in an emotional state. For instance, a story that happened years ago with a (now-ex) friend of mine (“J”) and his girlfriend (“H”). It begins at
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I put out a poll this morning about a very delicate situation. I’ll give you some details in a bit… but the gist is, a friend’s wife cheating on him. (READ: How I Know You’re A Cheater) I am 100% certain of this. There isn’t any wiggle room for other options. But, it’s a very
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I remember as a teenager, meandering through the Cherry Hill Mall (shout out to South Jersey!), always feeling strange when walking by Victoria’s Secret. The place has a “forbidden” element to it. It was for women. Given the models and lingerie everywhere, you were a “pervert” if — as a man — you went in
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Friday night I put out in passing on Twitter: “Joke with your kids if you want them to develop their instincts.” The thought crossed my mind as I had finally found a parking space in a cozy little alley, deep in old italian South Philly. This neighborhood is “gentrifying,” but still has a lot of the
A big problem with black-white thinking on relationships is there is an assumption that all “beta” styled relationships are the same… and that the same approach will work for each of them. There are two types I see commonly. The first is the “best friends” dynamic. This is a relationship characterized but trust and comfort.
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The other week I was in Nashville, and spent an evening at the famous Bluebird Cafe. For those who don’t know, the Bluebird Cafe is a tiny, non-descript bar in a shopping center outside of Nashville. Seats no more than 100 people. Surrounded by “California Pizza Kitchen” and other bunk food and retail chains. And
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An acquaintance sent out a message to her group chat the other day that I found very interesting. (yes, I have spies who share such things with me) A little background on said woman before we dive in: She had been dating a guy who was poly, but the relationships was dysfunctional and eventually ended…
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This email is guaranteed to offend some, but I want an honest look at this. I got into an exchange with the great Geoffrey Miller the other day. He’s a famous “evolutionary sex” scientist and polyamory advocate. Now, I want to be clear about some things. I’ve got nothing against Geoffrey. I think he’s a
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Last weekend was the biggest amount of time I’ve wasted in ages. I let a strange addiction take me over, something I had buried a long time before and thought I had passed. Axis and Allies. Not necessarily because I love to PLAY the game. Because I try to modify it. I want to make the game
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As you know, I took a break from Twitter and this list last week. Some of it was family-time. Some of it was an already filled-up coaching schedule. The rest of it? Recalibrating my thoughts. I started working with a mentor, and he’s already significantly impacting my outlook on things…crystallizing some ideas that I’ve been
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