My wife and I have a little Halloween tradition we’ve started of watching the Rocky Horror Picture Film each year around that spooky night. (Last year we saw a live performance in a movie theatre while drunk off flat champagne… good times) Anyway, something struck me last year and was internalized even further when I […]
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I briefly tweeted out a thread yesterday on this topic before deleting it. (The topic wasn’t “red meat” for the twitter… and perhaps a bit too controversial… plus I think threads have become passé) But I figured why not turn it into an email for you guys instead, even if it is a bonus. This
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As some of you perhaps saw from my buzzed tweets this weekend, I was at a NY gala. (We’re big fans of “classing it up” and since I don’t anticipate being in NY much longer, best to enjoy the scene.) Anyway, we’re not the only ones who enjoy it. It’s also a big favorite locale
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Hi Pat,this might be a bit offtopic, but something just came back to my mind recently. Before I’ve read “No more mister nice guy“, the sexlife with my wife went downhill greatly after about 6 months into the marriage. It turned out, it was because of resentment on my side and constant pressure for her
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Another day, another big Twitter argument with “that” corner of the internet. And all because of a little bitty quote of mine from Monday’s email Rivelino (@alpharivelino) sent out: “Ethical players must stay away from decent girls, or must change their ways and date them seriously. You are scum otherwise, no matter what you tell
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I heard a story the other night that, like many otherwise innocuous tales, seemed mild on the surface but caused me some concern. It was about an older friend’s son. He’s about my age. I haven’t met him. And don’t know anything about him personally, except that which I was told. But he’s married, and
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One reason I caution anyone to think in black and white about women is personality type. As we have said time and time again: all women are hypergamous, but all women do not manifest their hypergamy the same way. So while your average ESFJ female might lose interest if you chased and persisted through obstacles, your
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So as should be common knowledge if you’re on this list by now, masculinity and femininity are downstream of universal “sex impulses,” and determine the sexual polarity in a relationship. And it should also be clear that there are different personalities, and some get along better than others (both individually, and structurally). But there is
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“Hi Pat. I hope you’re well. I was just reading the Mary Magdalen section in “The Way Forward” that reminded me of a question I asked Mr. Tomassi. I’d very much enjoy your answer to the same question. “Hi Rollo. I’ve been meaning to ask you about something that’s bothered me a bit about some
Wanted to piggie back of yesterday’s email while it’s still on people’s minds, and talk about ways women “cheat loyally.” It’s something people don’t talk too much about — for understandable reasons. It’s still cheating, even if the reasons for it are complex. But understanding how some of this stuff works on the “deep end”
