Yesterday on Twitter, Kathryn Hogan (@KathrynmHogan – great follow BTW) responded to my tweet with an interesting question. Me: “A woman can only be soft if her man is hard. Most modern men are not up to the challenge.” Her: “Do you think this is a goes both ways thing? That a man can’t be hard […]
Yesterday we mentioned how both Biological and Psychological attraction have a Persona element to them. I’m going to explain why this makes sense… and why it matters. To take a step back: You can look at Status/Wealth/Looks (Preselection, Biological) and Type/Values/Growth (Personality, Psychological) as being relatively concrete things. Persona, on the other hand, is more
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I was on a call with one of my clients the other day discussing “Girl Game” and the ways to protect yourself from it. We went over a range of topics, so I won’t go into them all (some are proprietary, after all)… But one thing that came up in the conversation, that’s important for you guys
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I just finished “Vikings” series. (Or at least, what’s out so far) ***I won’t try to give too many spoilers… but if you’re not yet through season 4, you might want to close the email now.*** There’s a character in the show called Harald. When you first meet Harald, he’s an ambitious Earl, on his
Ah Mother’s Day. A moment to appreciate the women who brought us into the world. I love my mother a lot. She was supportive, loving, reliable. At the times of my life that weren’t exactly great, my mom’s unconditional love was always available. I’m sure a lot of you can relate. But this love also
One thing post-modernism has introduced to culture is the idea that we “shouldn’t judge.” It’s a stupid idea, for obvious reasons. We navigate the world through perception (taking in information) and judgment (qualifying it). Cut out half of the equation, and you’re pretty much unable to operate in the world. You’re prey. Which is why
I was talking to an ex-client of mine the other day about the current status of his relationship. Things are overall pretty good. Over the 6 months of working together, he shifted from a position of powerlessness to a position of authority in the relationship… a dynamic which has been effectively solidified. And yet, though
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Yesterday on twatter I put out a quote on “Ethical Seduction” ***Ethical seduction: Understanding someone’s weak spots… and causing them to love you for helping them overcome them.*** Some people wondered whether this was no different than just being kind. Spoiler alert: It is. Not to diminish such gestures, but anyone can be kind. It doesn’t
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Personality work is polarizing in the dating community. Some people swear by it. Some write it off entirely. A major reason for this divide comes down to fear. For instance: Many people think personality is the be-all-end-all in romance because they are worried about coming across as sexist, and think personality conveniently writes-off gender. “People
Another day, another spat with some of these RP guys. I know some of you love the drama, some of you hate it. I expect it’ll be over soon-ish, but since our audiences overlap, don’t be surprised if it takes some time for the separation to be clear and complete… Anyway, one thing I wanted
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