Was exposed to an interesting thread the other day worth commenting on: Unsurprisingly, I don’t really disagree with the fundamental content of the thread. As my good friend Hutton has said: “the sexes win or lose together” Anyone promoting better understanding between men and women — with acceptance of differences, and without judgment — is a […]
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Hi Pat, Got few doubts to ask here. This girl that I’m seeing right now is feminine, submissive to me (believe it’s because of the frame that I maintain) & is pleasant to be with. All good overall. Good family & background.It’s here past however that has bugged me in the past. She has always been
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I put out a tweet the other day that got quite a bit of traction: The responses, as you might guess, ran the gauntlet. Tons of guys had nothing to say except the usual depressing, deselected male refrain: “women never love you, they only love you for what you give them” — the radical “red pill” rationalization for
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A very interesting study crossed my path from a client this morning I had to share. Basically the gist is that women who displayed “happiness” were deemed most attractive… while men were deemed the least. Meanwhile, men who displayed “pride” were considered sexiest; women the least. I think we can agree off the bat that
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Hey Pat I wanted to ask what your thoughts are on knowing whether a girl is the right one for marriage? I think I’ve dated enough to know what I want in a woman long term, not that I plan on getting married anytime within the next 4-5 years minimum. My gf comes from a
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As many of you know, I’m not one of the more “responsible” manosphere figures. I do not adhere to the stoic philosophy so much as the epicurean — I drink, celebrate, flaneur — life for me is about joie de vivre, spontaneity… not so much regimentation. Which I know will not resonate, at least not fully, with everybody reading this. And
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One of the most annoying things that women do is “nag” And unfortunately for many guys, it’s also one of the hardest things to nip in the bud. Once a woman gets in the habit of doing it, it can become incessant. How to stop this nagging? Fortunately, there are ways. But before we go
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Good tweet came to me the other day from Masculine Millennial: And unfortunately a scenario all too common. Guy starts dating a girl, has shit frame, and his friends aren’t too enthusiastic about her influence on him…… and before you know it, the girl starts isolating said guy from his friends… and if that fails,
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I talked about this on Twitter awhile back, and have been meaning to elaborate on it: The first reaction from a lot of guys, upon seeing this, was the usual cynical frustration you see so often in our corner. “Typical woman, leaving when things get rough” “Hypergamy doesn’t care” But there was an alternative take:
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