Question #1: Hey pat i just saw your tweet and wanted to ask you something. I dont need money or so i just need some good and sustainable non red pill relationship adviceIve been with my girl for 2 yearsIm 22 shes 20 She has an anxiety disorder and kinda low self esteem Around a […]
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A reader writes in: Hey Pat, Thanks for all the valuable content you put out. I‘m curious about your opinion on the situation I am in with a girl currently. I’m sure it’s pretty common amongst guys. I’ve been hanging out and having sex with a girl about 3 times a week for the past 3
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Apologies for the lack of emails of late. My mind, like many of yours, has been towards family and unravelling the mystery of this virus and what’s in store for society. Those of you who follow me on Twitter know that I’ve been going into some of my observations about the weird shit actually going (per
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I received this question earlier today on a delicate yet important topic: Hey Pat, where does the nuance lie between teasing and insulting? I’m having to think about this consciously because I only regularly tease girls I have no interest in, now having to consciously think about it with a girl I like makes me
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A reader writes in: Should you aim for compatibility / a best friend, OR should you aim for someone where there is that instant sincere love (that warm feeling you get when you’re with family) That’s the short question. The backstory is I have a girl I’ve dated on and off for about 5 years
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One of my readers asks: It’s sad we’re at this point where the idea of romance has been questioned… though I understand how we got here. First, the macro dynamics between men and women changed. Women no longer need providers like they used to; “provisioning gestures” have thus lost much of their value proposition. Second —
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A thread “To My Future Girlfriend” went around a week or so back, which I bookmarked to talk about: The thread actual goes on, but you get the picture. At first blush it looks pretty cheesy — you might say as “blue pill” as content comes. This guy is talking about all the different ways
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Was asked to comment about this thread: And I think I know the reason why. Our community is very much about thinking and acting like you are “the prize.” Viewed through a certain lens, this thread about women “knowing their value and acting like it” seems very feminist. But the truth is that I don’t really
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So one of the most consistent IOI’s (indicators of interest) you’ll see out there is eye contact. Women who want you to approach will look at you. Women who really want you to approach will look at you, look down, and then look back again (the “peek back” as per Nick Sparks). And women who REALLY want
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Last week I did something very “bad” from a business perspective, you might say. It was Valentine’s Day weekend, and yet I didn’t write out an in depth post talking about what you should do. There were a couple of reasons for this. But the main reason? I didn’t want to. Now, not because I’m
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