Saw a very tragic story in the Relationship Reddit, one I wanted to comment on: Most of the comments are directed against this guy — like he is the “bad one” here. And I get it. He lost his temper, he was mean to her, he scared her. But at the risk of sounding like some people […]
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Was really backed up on some DMs, so rather than answer them each individually I decided to tackle a bunch of them here:- QUESTION #1 Hey Pat, was hoping to ask you for some advice. I met this girl on a dating app (I know I know…) and we texted back and forth and the
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Got a question from one of my clients a few weeks back about something funny. You see, on a date with a girl he got an erection… and he was worried she would respond poorly if she saw it. Would she think he was some sort of creepy guy? It’s a good question.Because the answer
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A reader writes in: Hey Pat — I’d like some advice on an ex girlfriend. I’m an INTP and enneagram type 5 if that may help. Personally, I don’t have much trouble getting girls or having sex with them but my ex (only girl I have been a relationship with in the last 5 years
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A long time reader was not super happy about an email I put out a few days back about players mostly getting their notches from promiscuous girls: I’m a little taken aback by the latest email. Have you read Sex at Dawn? Not sure I agree with all the analysis on the latest email from
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Warning those of you who are more on the “prude” side. This is very much a TMI email. Don’t read on if you don’t want to hear a lot of unpolite conversation about vaginas. —— This is one of the more funny questions I’ve gotten. But a client asked it, so I wanted to clear
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One of the great manosphere memes is how modern women are all whores who sleep around. The truth? Well, I’ll let Hutt tell you: This is something I’ve touched upon in the past. But it bears seriously repeating… because it completely skews people’s understanding of reality. 20% of the women account for 80% of the notches.
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A tweet went viral the other day, which led to some pretty interesting differences in opinion: As you might have expected, a lot of guys — including yours truly — were throwing it back at her. This woman cancelled minutes before a date and thought the guy had a problem because it bothered him. You will hardly
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Was talking to a client last week, and he brought up an interesting problem. First, a little context: This client is crushing it with women. He’s a day game monster, approaching very often 20+ women each week. He shows up weekly to calls, is honest and introspective, and takes enormous action. He’s not at an elite
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An interesting tweet by Michael Sebastian got some traction yesterday, as did my response: Going to elaborate on it, because I think it’s something trad guys in particular struggle to understand about attraction. Cutting to the point: People have all sorts of dumb fantasies about what women used to want, as if female desire has
