A reader writes in: Here’s my question… going to do my best to give you ‘context’ as briefly as possible. About two years ago I had a great date with someone I felt I had a connection with. We hooked up, and she pursued after our date by texting me a couple of days in a […]
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The other day the great Komander Xander commented on the following tweet: Which was a great opportunity for me, as I realized this new fad of modern women claiming to be “sapiosexual” is something I’ve never addressed. So what’s the story with it? Is it real or not? As usual, there’s some nuance to this. Sapiosexuality means
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A reader writes in: Hi Pat, Personal development puts me in a dilemma. I value connection. I want to be in a relationship and I want hot sex. But I am so often let down by most of my peers in their 20s that I interact with, including the girls in this age range whom I’m
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Those of you familiar with my work should be familiar at this point with my work on the three pillars of attraction. (I gave a great speech on it in 2019 at the 21 Convention – if you missed it, check it out) However, if you’ve been following me recently on twitter, you’d also see
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A reader writes in: ‘Hello Pat, I trust this message meets you well. I have an issue about dating to relate to you. I hope you find time amid your busy schedule to provide clarity. I met a girl I am attracted to, and we started speaking. In my observation, I would say she’s a
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A reader writes in: I’m in an interesting predicament here. I’m 22 but very psychologically developed and integrated for my age. Most of my friends are older than me and in different stages of life. Some are even in their 40s and 50s, including one pretty intelligent guy in his 50s who strangely, I’ve been
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A reader writes in: Hi Pat, how are you man ? Sorry bothering you but I have a question for you for the next email or dating periscope. I am only asking you this because I am so bothered with this and I dont have anyone to ask for advice other than you. So I thank
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Bit of a weird email for you today.But I wanted to talk about something that’s been occurring more and more in my practice. Something that’s very strange to discuss for many, and indeed may not appeal to most. And yet, has proven very useful to those open enough towards it. Those of you who have
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Had an interesting conversation with a client the other day. A conversation I think might be very valuable for you gentlemen to “eavesdrop” on so to speak. The background: One of my clients is a very wealthy and successful guy. In incredible shape. And extremely fluent in “game.” He’s into dom-sub dynamics, and unlike many is able
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