As promised, I wanted to elaborate a bit on the tweet I made last night about women sleeping with broke boys: I’ve been getting the impression a lot of guys are annoyed about this phenomenon. You go out and work hard, make money, become successful, and a woman turns you down to sleep with a […]
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A reader writes in: Hi Pat. Hope this finds you well. I wanted to ask you about some interactions I had with a girl I know socially and how if at all to proceed. I will try and be as detailed as possible, but if you feel anything is missing, ask and I will try
Last week I wrote a thread on the 3 areas men struggle in with women. I went into more detail about them in the thread, but these 3 areas: Confronting Fear, Expanding Awareness, and Operating In Good Faith cover every problem I’ve ever worked on with a man. Although there is obvious bleed over amongst
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I had the pleasure recently of doing a coaching call with a woman. Now, before we go into what we discussed — no, this is not something I expect I will be doing on the regular. I’m more open to it than before, and this woman presented a compelling exception. But I still have much
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There are some subjects you are just not supposed to talk about when it comes to attraction. Discussion of techniques is expected. The need to calibrate your behavior based on context, encouraged. The role of intuition, begrudgingly acknowledged — though not much understood. Most people assume, to the extent “intuition” in an interaction with a
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A reddit post made the rounds the other day on Twitter: Basically, this woman and her husband were both fat. It happened gradually since they got together. She was never slim, but she put on more weight over the years, and as it happened he became less affectionate and loving towards her. One day, on
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had a client a few years back who wasn’t one of my better ones. Don’t get me wrong, he was a good guy and I liked him. But he’d disappear for long stretches of time. When we had calls, he’d forget them, or come in late. From a professional standpoint it was frustrating. I will
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I saw a woman on the beach this weekend with a horribly disfigured face. I’m ashamed to admit I was curious why. Was it some genetic issue? Of course, you don’t stare, so I only gave discreet, peripheral glances. What was interesting about this woman though was she was clearly in a relationship. The man
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I tweeted out something the other day that I don’t think people entirely understood, and wanted to elaborate on: When many people see something like this, it creates dissonance. They think “I don’t like girls who hurt me, that’s what dumb people do, this tweet is bullshit.” Others view it as pro-sadism or toxic dating;
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This will probably be an exceptionally controversial email. But I want to open the door on this subject, because I find the commentary on female sexuality for the most regurgitated and unconsidered in this corner of the internet. First, let’s take a few well established observations and lay them out: Then let’s take two competing
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