There’s a reason I’m a dating AND relationship coach. These two subject areas, while obviously overlapping, are in fact quite different. Something that becomes VERY apparent as a married guy (who had a LOT of experience dating)… when I see the regular commentary of manosphere bros asserting things that work in a casual context will […]
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One thing that seems incomprehensible, and indeed threatens permanent resentment for many “recovering nice guys” is why — despite all the kind things they did — the women they loved and cared for could act so cruel to them. These are guys who were, on paper, the perfect boyfriends — they were considerate, generous, patient.
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One of the topics I’ve “pioneered” in the manosphere is the concept of “Girl Game” — the things women do to seduce men, and how men need to protect themselves accordingly. And because so few gurus talk about it — most guys are concerned with gaming women, not preventing themselves from being gamed (a big mistake) —
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Hey Pat,I appreciate your work, it has seriously helped me better my life. But I’d like your help with a situation I’m in right now. Last Friday, after dating for 4 months, I told my girlfriend I love her. She responded saying she loves me too. But on our most recent date, she told me
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Watched a movie — Midsommar — the other night that was very interesting. (Spoiler alerts for the first ~30 minutes of the film ahead) For our purposes, however, I’m going to focus on the central relationship dynamic in the film: Christian and Dani. Christian and Dani’s relationship is, in a word, dysfunctional. And unfortunately represents
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A reader writes in: Hi Pat Due to a health issue I’ve been dealing with I’ve not been able to have sex with my girlfriend for the last 4 months. Other sorts of sexual play are not her thing and haven’t gone well. This has been amplified by having moved in together over the COVID
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I’ve received a couple of messages at this point to address the recent “excitement” around Jada and Will Smith. For those who don’t know (I didn’t either), they recently did an interview of sorts where they discussed their marital problems — specifically Jada’s affair with another man. As you might expect, the red pill guys
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Had a request the other day to touch on a phenomenon noted in my last COVID/CABAL periscope (these are somewhat political and very esoteric / conspiratorial, so ignore these if that’s not your thing). No doubt there are parallels — indeed, you can’t simply limit it to the right, it connects to (almost) the entire political establishment.
Got a couple of good responses to a recent email I wanted to address. First one: I think this is generally right on but here with a one year old? You may be missing what goes on in new mother’s physiology, it’s like a recovering drug addict for *a lot* of these women. — I
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