Growth

Dissonance In A Nutshell

The other day I had an application from a guy considering doing some coaching with me. And he put some stuff on the application that gave me a bit of a chuckle. Nothing, really embarrassing or atypical, mind you. I don’t mention it to “shame” him. But worth noting since I’m certain many of you […]

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The Essence of Alpha

One thing I (and increasingly more) of the denizens of Twitter find hilarious is how much people in the red pill world obsess about who is Alpha and who is Beta. Part of this is funny because it’s just a stupid conversation. To use the jargon, guys who are extremely dominant and “run” the household

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Why Men Are Afraid of Women

Going to keep this one brief since it’s a bit late and I have a Beaujolais and tracksuit party to go to… despite — or should I say, especially — due to our first snowstorm. (it’s this sort of magical randomness that makes me love NYC) Anyway, the headline is a topic I find comes up with

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All About ENTPs

Well this email was in big demand, which is not all that surprising since a huge number of my followers are ENTP. So I apologize that I’ve been feeling a bit shit yesterday and today, and got this out not only a day late… but late the next day. (Consider it a meta-introduction to the

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Can Men and Women Both Grow?

I briefly tweeted out a thread yesterday on this topic before deleting it. (The topic wasn’t “red meat” for the twitter… and perhaps a bit too controversial… plus I think threads have become passé) But I figured why not turn it into an email for you guys instead, even if it is a bonus. This

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Building My Army of Betas?

I was about halfway through an article on Introverted Feeling (Fi) vs Extroverted Feeling (Fe) in seduction, when I bailed. This happens from time to time with writing. I have an idea, and think it will be great (Extroverted intuition) And then I apply my critical lens to it (Introverted thinking) and realize I just

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The Ethical Player

Another day, another big Twitter argument with “that” corner of the internet. And all because of a little bitty quote of mine from Monday’s email Rivelino (@alpharivelino) sent out: “Ethical players must stay away from decent girls, or must change their ways and date them seriously. You are scum otherwise, no matter what you tell

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Why Women Hate The Manosphere

The other night I was out with a post-gala crew. And a girl in the group was complaining. (go figure) Her boyfriend was an investment banker and was working long hours… to the point where it was her 30th birthday, and he wasn’t coming out. I understood his side of the situation, of course. They

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Can Women Change?

“Hi Pat. I hope you’re well.  I was just reading the Mary Magdalen section in “The Way Forward” that reminded me of a question I asked Mr. Tomassi. I’d very much enjoy your answer to the same question. “Hi Rollo. I’ve been meaning to ask you about something that’s bothered me a bit about some

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