Everyone who’s at least somewhat awake to gender dynamics understands, when it comes to preselection, women desire men who are high status and good-looking. Bad looks, you need status. Low status, you need looks. (though note: status is relative to the environment, so don’t think you need to be an international celebrity to have high […]
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Recently one of my clients and I have been working on getting this girl (who likes him, and has said as much) to hang out. In theory, this should be easy. As I said she’s already expressed interest, and the last date they went on they ended up making out in a back alley. But
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I talk a lot about the importance of strategy over tactics. As in, not focusing on short-term actions that undermine the broader goal. Some examples? – Trying to get a girl when the very act of pursuit undermines your frame– Gaming a girl who is not a good fit for your broader relationship goals– Orienting
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Hey hey, I’m back. Thanks for waiting around. The last 6-7 weeks have been good for me. A lot of changes inside and out, and I’m finally ready to get back in the writing game. Today I want to talk about the interplay between Personality and Persona. As you know, Personality is your psychological type, psychological health,
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Yesterday I put out a little thread on tactics / strategy in the realm of Persona. We’re going to explore this a little deeper now as it involves attraction dynamics. Recall the rule of attraction: men and women are attracted to opposite energies. Masculine desires feminine and vice versa. This is an important thing to internalize,
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I am in a serious rush today, so this will be a bit of a “basic bitch” email. But I want to get it out anyway since it’s been awhile since I talked to ya’ll. (in my “other” job this is a very busy time of the year, and as some of you have seen
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This is a topic I’ve written about in the past, but due to some recent demand I want to revisit. There is much going out these days about personality type-attraction (indeed, I’ve got a post dedicated to it coming out this week). The idea is that each personality type has one type in particular that
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In yesterday’s email, I talked about the dangers of Girl Game. Since then some guys have chimed in my Dynamic Men group. (MEN ONLY JOIN HERE) One thought that came up, and one I mostly concur with, is that the “elite” of girls in the looks category (aka “9s and 10s”) rarely possess solid girl
The *Two* Pillars Of Attraction? Read More »
Yesterday I put out a brief thread on looks and game; I’m going to expand on that here. What prompted me to dive into this topic was a “traditional” girl account I’d seen around before, but recently came into my feed again. The girl is genuinely quite attractive, and interestingly for twitter dot com, not
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I’ve talked many times over the years about the difference between subcommunication vs communication – so much so that it is, in a way, my “niche.” Why do I care so much about it? Let’s return to my Twitter thread the other day about “self vs other orientation” with women and I’ll show you… One
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