Interesting tweet came up on the timeline yesterday: Lot of truth in this comment. And yet, apply this incorrectly in practice, and you may find women change their mind about just how territorial you should be. What Fiercely Virgo presumably means in this case is that she wants her man to “claim” her. She wants to be desired. […]
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Finally caught up on this short Atlantic article, asking the pivotal question: Are Women The Bored Sex? Unsurprisingly, this article — despite being written by a feminist — comes to similar conclusions as the Red Pill. Women stop wanting sex in monogamous relationships, especially after co-habitation. Yet another reminder that the Red Pill and Feminism are two sides
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Was asked to elaborate on yesterday’s tweet: A lot of guys think discipline is what is missing when it comes to managing vices. You are weak, and that is why you are wasting your life away on porn, video games, scrolling, drugs, not making money, not talking to women, being fat etc. But the reality
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A reader writes in: “Hey Pat, completely get it if you’re not into this, but it would be interesting to hear you talk about marketing at some point. The Tate situation kind of put this in the spotlight, but I see a lot of people getting quick growth with similar methods. A lot of flexing
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A lot of guys are insecure about how good they are in bed. And given the culture we’re in, it’s understandable. The media tells men their value with women is based on their sexual prowess, and porn reinforces the message. So when guys find themselves in an intimate situation, the pressure on them to perform
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Put out a tweet the other day that got some mixed response: Unsurprisingly, much of the pushback was from women (including an executive coach, the epitome of male energy — big surprise!) But honestly the main reason people got upset with this tweet is because they misunderstood what I was trying to convey. For instance,
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Put out a controversial poll on Twitter the other day, and got some great answers to it: First I’ve got to say, I’m very proud of my audience. Most guys commenting were very attuned to the fact that you CANNOT give to get sex, and that “covert contracts” are nice guy behavior. Some also pointed
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There are two primary philosophies on how to get the relationship you want with a woman. The first is to focus on developing desire. Become a G who every girl would want to be with: a man with the looks, lifestyle, and game. And then develop an abundance when it comes to women, so that
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Short list of behavioral traits guys say they want with women: allows man his freedom (no nagging or demands) submissive; surrenders emotionally and sexually Lives basically to make his life easier (cooks, cleans, etc) All sounds pretty good, right? You get an attractive girl who does all of this, and you’ve hit the jackpot. Which
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It seems these things go through cycles. 15-20 years ago, game was *the* way to meet women. Didn’t matter how hot or in what scene a girl was — you could get her if you understood attraction. Guys who mastered cold approach were the elite with women. Then it shifted to looks. Girls really didn’t
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