The internet had mixed reactions to this tweet a few weeks back: To be honest though, I was expecting more pushback than I got. So either this is more true than I realized, or people (for once on Twitter) were just being polite. I only got one comment telling me I sucked in bed! I […]
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As promised, I wanted to elaborate a bit on the tweet I made last night about women sleeping with broke boys: I’ve been getting the impression a lot of guys are annoyed about this phenomenon. You go out and work hard, make money, become successful, and a woman turns you down to sleep with a
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A reader writes in: Hi Pat. Hope this finds you well. I wanted to ask you about some interactions I had with a girl I know socially and how if at all to proceed. I will try and be as detailed as possible, but if you feel anything is missing, ask and I will try
Last week I wrote a thread on the 3 areas men struggle in with women. I went into more detail about them in the thread, but these 3 areas: Confronting Fear, Expanding Awareness, and Operating In Good Faith cover every problem I’ve ever worked on with a man. Although there is obvious bleed over amongst
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I had the pleasure recently of doing a coaching call with a woman. Now, before we go into what we discussed — no, this is not something I expect I will be doing on the regular. I’m more open to it than before, and this woman presented a compelling exception. But I still have much
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There are some subjects you are just not supposed to talk about when it comes to attraction. Discussion of techniques is expected. The need to calibrate your behavior based on context, encouraged. The role of intuition, begrudgingly acknowledged — though not much understood. Most people assume, to the extent “intuition” in an interaction with a
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My response to the infamous RFH went viral yesterday: Unsurprisingly, many men took issue with this observation (you can check the tweet replies if you wish, don’t want to put the spotlight on anyone who doesn’t wish it). Their primary arguments, to summarize, were: 1) Women are responsible for their own outcomes — if they
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Most people assume that, as a dating and relationship coach, most of my job is “giving advice” on how to attract and keep women. Obviously, I do this. Not having competence with women would be embarrassing and would make it impossible for guys to get the results they seek with me. But for many guys,
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Put out a tweet yesterday that went somewhat viral: Unsurprisingly, it pissed off a ton of guys. Many insisted I had issues for even suggesting it. This isn’t much of a shocker for me. I’ve long said that while the manosphere is decent at understanding female nature, they are terrible at understanding their own. Most
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I tweeted out something the other day that I don’t think people entirely understood, and wanted to elaborate on: When many people see something like this, it creates dissonance. They think “I don’t like girls who hurt me, that’s what dumb people do, this tweet is bullshit.” Others view it as pro-sadism or toxic dating;
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