Put out a controversial poll on Twitter the other day, and got some great answers to it: First I’ve got to say, I’m very proud of my audience. Most guys commenting were very attuned to the fact that you CANNOT give to get sex, and that “covert contracts” are nice guy behavior. Some also pointed […]
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There are two primary philosophies on how to get the relationship you want with a woman. The first is to focus on developing desire. Become a G who every girl would want to be with: a man with the looks, lifestyle, and game. And then develop an abundance when it comes to women, so that
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A reader responds to my last email on Why Brilliant Men Must Marry Smart Women: I’d love to see another one of these going over the concept of the feminine needing stability as it relates to intelligence. Often times smart men are unemployable and as they are going through a phase of building a new
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Threw out a fun tweet the other day that went somewhat viral: Glad a lot of you enjoyed the humor. But it did land a bit close to home, didn’t it? Let’s be frank: the manosphere doesn’t really care much about intelligence in women. Some of this is understandable, though misapplied. A lot of guys
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Well it seems as if the manosphere has come to a new conclusion. You don’t really “need” any special advice to succeed with women. Get in shape, get rich. And then just “be interesting” and “hold frame.” Sinple, really. Problem solved. Or is it? Look, I get where this kind of thinking comes from. If
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I tweeted out something very important the other day: Let me reiterate the above: DRAMA = NO COMFORT INDIFFERENCE = NO DESIRE DO NOT MIX THESE TWO UP. If a woman is ignoring what you say and doing whatever she wants regardless of how it affects you then YES you have lost desire. But if a woman
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One of the classic stories we’ve been brought up on has been the “damsel in distress” Some girl is being taken advantage of by some awful man. You intervene, and tell him to let her go. Perhaps he does. Or perhaps a fight ensues, and the other guy loses. The woman is saved. And maybe
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One of the the common scenarios I deal with in my practice is divorce. Guys come to me either too late in their marriage — they have “terminal relationship cancer” — and there is nothing to do but prepare them for the “afterlife.” Or, they come to me as it’s happening or just after, looking
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I see it all the time with clients. A man and his woman have some pretty exciting sex when they first get together. Then they get committed and serious. It declines maybe a bit. Then they move in together. It goes down a bit more. Then they get married… and it drops a bit more
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Got into a little controversy (as usual) on the timeline the other day: But before we get into the meat… It should be noted I understand entirely the intent of this tweet and where Evie is coming from. I get why some women would take issue with the idea of a man going to a
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