An interesting tweet by Michael Sebastian got some traction yesterday, as did my response: Going to elaborate on it, because I think it’s something trad guys in particular struggle to understand about attraction. Cutting to the point: People have all sorts of dumb fantasies about what women used to want, as if female desire has […]
Got a question from a subscriber the other day, more or less asking the above. It’s a bit of a general question, and so is probably better answered in a blog post (maybe I will create one, one of these days…) But anyway, to spitball… The most important things you NEED to do after a
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One thing that really irks me about so many of the internet larpers, ebook scammers, and dime-a-dozen “love experts” is the ignorance and arrogance that their simple, one dimensional formula will solve all of your romantic issues. Guy who learns how to take girls home after meeting them knows “the secret” to owning a woman’s
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Was speaking to a client today and an interesting topic came up. One I have not thought to discuss much, despite its importance. The background: When my client and I started working together, he wasn’t meeting too many new women, and had been consistently settling for “meh” looking girls who went after him that didn’t
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It’s common knowledge most women love the finer things in life. Women are attracted to rich men, women care disproportionately about fashion, and of course, most consumers are women. And so there has always been this tension in the male provider-paradigm that a woman wants to spend things a man earns, and doesn’t think so much
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Full disclosure before this gossip column analysis: I could give two SHITS about the royal family. Prince Andrew is a confirmed pedophile, and he’s just the surface of the evil shit that goes on behind their “glamorous” lifestyle. But nevertheless it is very interesting seeing how things have unfolded with Prince Harry. Of course, it wasn’t hard
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A reader writes in: Its a first for me usually id manuver well but I really am kinda stumped here. long story short remember I said I had a LTR and I thought it would work and end in successful marriage? Well I think I met my potential wife lol….(makes no sense different woman) morals
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A little story from a client the other day: He’s been dating this girl for a few months now. She’s attractive, sex is great… but she’s been starting to wear on him. Because she’s a very, very anxious and needy girl. They “have to” talk every night, often quite late. She’ll have occasional “meltdowns” where
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A reader writes in about a situation with his girlfriend (he is not a native speaker so feel free to scroll past for TL;DR below): “Pat, I really appreciate your thought and your work and I would live an advice from you. I am in a LTR for almost two years, I started it as
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I put it out on the interwebs the other day a little drama that occurred in my broader social circle: Now, before I dive into this, I must defend myself. Someone asked why I didn’t just say off the bat I wasn’t interested. 2 reasons: First, I’m not sure what my troll’s social world is
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