An interesting article was posted in our client-only group the other day I recommend you give it a read, but to summarize the argument… in addition to the classic five love languages defined by Gary Chapman (acts of service, gifts, physical touch, quality time, words of affirmation), the author notes that there is a sixth: distance. Cutting to […]
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One of my readers asks: It’s sad we’re at this point where the idea of romance has been questioned… though I understand how we got here. First, the macro dynamics between men and women changed. Women no longer need providers like they used to; “provisioning gestures” have thus lost much of their value proposition. Second —
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Was asked to comment about this thread: And I think I know the reason why. Our community is very much about thinking and acting like you are “the prize.” Viewed through a certain lens, this thread about women “knowing their value and acting like it” seems very feminist. But the truth is that I don’t really
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Last week I did something very “bad” from a business perspective, you might say. It was Valentine’s Day weekend, and yet I didn’t write out an in depth post talking about what you should do. There were a couple of reasons for this. But the main reason? I didn’t want to. Now, not because I’m
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Saw a very tragic story in the Relationship Reddit, one I wanted to comment on: Most of the comments are directed against this guy — like he is the “bad one” here. And I get it. He lost his temper, he was mean to her, he scared her. But at the risk of sounding like some people
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Was really backed up on some DMs, so rather than answer them each individually I decided to tackle a bunch of them here:- QUESTION #1 Hey Pat, was hoping to ask you for some advice. I met this girl on a dating app (I know I know…) and we texted back and forth and the
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A reader writes in: Hey Pat — I’d like some advice on an ex girlfriend. I’m an INTP and enneagram type 5 if that may help. Personally, I don’t have much trouble getting girls or having sex with them but my ex (only girl I have been a relationship with in the last 5 years
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A long time reader was not super happy about an email I put out a few days back about players mostly getting their notches from promiscuous girls: I’m a little taken aback by the latest email. Have you read Sex at Dawn? Not sure I agree with all the analysis on the latest email from
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Warning those of you who are more on the “prude” side. This is very much a TMI email. Don’t read on if you don’t want to hear a lot of unpolite conversation about vaginas. —— This is one of the more funny questions I’ve gotten. But a client asked it, so I wanted to clear
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Was talking to a client last week, and he brought up an interesting problem. First, a little context: This client is crushing it with women. He’s a day game monster, approaching very often 20+ women each week. He shows up weekly to calls, is honest and introspective, and takes enormous action. He’s not at an elite
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