Something occurred with a client recently I’ve seen happen countless times… and was worth expounding upon for you all. I’m sure you’ve heard it before. Sex in a relationship has dried up… You make your feelings of frustration known. And the girl claims the reason is that “she doesn’t feel like you are fully committed […]
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Don’t need to tell you that if there is any emotion that is shamed and suppressed these days, it’s anger. Doesn’t matter whether it’s coming from mainstream propaganda, or your local new age spirituality group. Anger is an emotion of destruction. It’s entitled. And fundamentally, it’s dangerous. Men in particular who express anger are toxic, and a
Something I’ve mentioned before, but not directly on here, are the different dynamics you will see in your standard “post-honeymoon” relationship. Obviously the highest tier is the most healthy kind. This is the couple that is warm, affectionate, respectful, and who — if they even have issues — communicate through them relatively calmly, and allow
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Interesting exchange occurred the other day between the great Ben Foth and me over what a male comfort issue might look like: As you can see, I already gave my two cents. But I gave the response offhand, and it wasn’t adequate for the topic — so let’s consider it a bit more. Women want commitment on
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If there is one topic that gets the average man to swallow his pride and seek out relationship advice, it’s sex. And the reason is simple: for the vast majority of men, the longer they are in their relationship, the less sex they have. The “honeymoon phase,” where a man and his woman sleep together
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Great show with Tony Bruno once again. We discuss the enigmatic seasons of female sexuality… and how exactly a woman’s interest in sex changes based on her life and circumstances.
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Last night I had a bit of fun rattling the hornet’s nest with these tweets: Apparently, much of the trad community REALLY doesn’t like it when you infer that a virgin in her mid-20s who can’t find a man might have some problems. Because if a girl is a virgin that automatically means she’s a
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Viral post went around the other day, and my comment drew some interesting responses: Probably the main response? “This is pretty much all marriages today, good luck” I admit I was a little surprised by this. Though I know I shouldn’t be. A lot of guys have been through nasty divorces. And there’s no doubt that
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A short and sweet email for you today: One common trait of “nice guys” is that they will go out of their way to try and accommodate women. There are a million reasons why this pisses women off. It makes them guilty, it results in the guy being resentful and passive aggressive. For the sake
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A very provocative tweet went around the other day: The question: is it true? This is one of those very unsatisfying answers… yes and no. “Yes” because he is correct that a girl at 28 should be on track for marriage. And “yes,” she is probably looking for some sort of clarity around whether this relationship will
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