So first things first: This email is not dealing with moral questions — we are speaking about a common yet ambiguous situation. Let’s say you’re engaging with a girl — maybe someone you knew in the past and had a thing for — but you’re interested in “catching up” and ask her out. This an indirect […]
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Saw something amusing on the timeline this morning: I know everybody’s eyes are probably wide right now thinking about the number of sexual partners this woman just added to her roster in a short amount of time. However I’m actually going to go a little easy on her. Because while I’d be naive to suggest none
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The masterful Niels (who will be on my YouTube channel in the coming weeks) fired some shots yesterday morning: I appreciate these sort of takedowns because manosphere stupidity needs to be checked time to time. There are far too many sock-puppet accounts with a picture of Casanova or some slut that post dog-shit takes pandering to extremes.
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One of the most intimidating aspects of meeting women for guys is the dreaded “approach.” It’s awkward. It’s uncomfortable. And worst yet… as a stranger, the chances of rejection are fairly high. Much of the classic “game” literature has thus encouraged guys to approach in a more indirect way. To pretend your objectives are NOT
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A somewhat spicy email for you today. And one lacking in some of my usual nuance. But a common situation arose with a client the other day… and figured it was time to give my two cents on it. Is it possible to date across the political aisle? The answer, as always, is… it depends. Do
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Something I was asked to comment on awhile back, but I’ve mostly avoided has been the topic of women and their “work husbands.” The reason for this is fairly simple. I find the term “work husband” stupid and it annoys me. Such a classic phrase to emerge circa 2022. Nevertheless, it’s real and we must address it. So
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Read a harrowing story on Twitter the other day: It’s a long thread… you can go through the details yourself. But to TL;DR… this woman was dating a man and became pregnant with his child. Because she (African) was from a different background than him (Pakistani), however, his culture wouldn’t accept her. And so, while
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Unexpectedly, I stirred up the hornet’s nest the other day with this tweet: But let me make a few general comments before we dive into it… First, remember anything that triggers people usually has legs. If you say something offensive that is dumb it doesn’t really piss people off. It’s boring, and often not worth
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Guys tend to disagree with each other about the quality of women for a very simple reason: the women they experience are completely different. But the question isn’t that this happens, but why it happens. Generally it’s a combination of factors. No question, the environment where you are meeting women matters. You are going to get a
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Spicy topic today. But wanted to take on something the manosphere has long harped on: that older women are just “not worth the trouble” to be in a relationship with. (Note: I’m not talking about relative age, but absolute — aka 30+) Their rationale has a couple of angles. But the fundamental argument is that
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