online dating

The 5 Types of Guys I Work With

The 5 Types of Guys I Work With Unsurprisingly for a dating and relationship coach, I’m frequently asked “what sort of stuff do you work on with clients?” To my embarrassment, I am usually pretty poor at answering this question. In most professions these days, you are essentially a specialist. And this is no different […]

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How To Date Online Today (7 Rules)

I tweeted out today some observations about what’s happening in the online realm. Which, considering this stuff is my “business” — might be considered a bit risky. “Wait Pat, you’re saying that your clients aren’t getting great results online? What does that say about you?” It says I’m honest. It’s not just my clients, it’s

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Love In A Time of Coronavirus

Apologies for the lack of emails of late. My mind, like many of yours, has been towards family and unravelling the mystery of this virus and what’s in store for society. Those of you who follow me on Twitter know that I’ve been going into some of my observations about the weird shit actually going (per

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The Low-Down On Online Dating

So yesterday we got to a lot of talking about online dating on Twitter. As many of you saw, my takes were not particularly positive on the phenomenon. I likened it to “getting food at a supermarket” vs approaching girls (more like hunting) or meeting girls through your social circle (raising them on a farm). The latter

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