One of the big questions that circulates the “manosphere” is how you can judge whether or not a woman is someone you should commit to. There’s quite a bit of criteria people throw around. A few examples: – Down for sex anytime– Feminine– Takes care of herself physically– Does sweet stuff for you There’s more […]
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One of the most popular books in this corner is the vintage tome, The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. The book is indeed a must-read. I recommend it to all of you.It’s a very deep book. I reread it every two years, and every time I draw more insight out of it.
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One of the big divides between “red pill” / pick up communities and the mainstream is about age. Which age of a girl is appropriate for a guy to date, and which isn’t? A lot of people, older women of course, but even other middle aged guys with daughters… find the impulse to date “low”
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One of the key things you NEED to understand if you’re ever going to succeed with women is that attention is everything to them. It’s what they chase. To the extent they care about wealth, it’s because money grants them more attention. Diamonds — attention. Fashion — attention. Attention gets to the heart of the female identity
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As many of you saw, I put out a few tweets the other day re: how “not crying” doesn’t make you tough, it’s a sign of emotional repression: Some of you wanted me to elaborate on this a bit. Honestly I think my comments speak for themselves. Guys around these parts are so insecure about how
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Had a conversation with a client recently who has been going through a bit of dilemma. Long story short, he’s had a girlfriend for awhile now. Sweet, pretty girl. Good values. Perfect wife material. But he’s not really happy being with her. Her personality is a bit plain and boring. Anyway, enter this girl he
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So earlier this week my wife and I watched one of the worst “chick flicks” either of us have ever seen: “Letters to Juliet” I am going to ruin this stupid movie for you, so don’t read this email if you actually want to watch it for some reason. Ok, so the main protagonist is
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So the other day I put out a thread on monogamy on Twitter. And received the following question in response: “interesting ideas… could you expand on the leveraging of libido among others’ point? And what you mean by ‘exploring their shadows’ — what does this actually entail a person doing? I get the idea but don’t
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So a few days ago I put out a thread today that’s going a bit viral on the nature of male and female energy. You can read the thread here. But, some elaboration on it… and why I’m talking about these things now.I’ve gone through an enormous number of layers and models when it comes
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In Defense of Rollo Tomassi As many, if not most of you, know — I’ve had a long, not-so-cordial history with Rollo Tomassi. Those who aren’t caught up can see an anthology of our history here, dating back to summer 2017: Pt 1: The Ultimate Imperative Pt. 2: The Way Forward Pt. 3: What Is
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