Yesterday we talked about sex and enlightenment. Today we’re going to talk about it too. As you know, I think most psychological growth comes from deep, intimate relationships. The reason for that is simple. People you spend time with hold a mirror up to you. And the closer you get to someone, the more they …
It seems more and more that the divide in “the sphere” is between cad and trad — those who want to sleep with a lot of girls, and those that want to settle down. Most consider me on the side of the latter. Which makes sense. I’ve taken more than a couple jabs at the “gather-notches” …
As most of you know, I’m currently in France. So it should be no surprise I’ve taken time to visit some wine producers. It’s fascinating to see how these guys work. There are certain “universals,” obviously, to how they make wine — but they styles are so distinct. One guy has a real cult following …
It’s no shock to people that I enjoy my drink. Alcohol is fun, though truth be told its the culture around it I love. (Why 95%+ of what I drink is wine, unless I am in Poland or Mexico, when it’s vodka or tequila shots respectively) And so, I’ve had my share of “hangovers” and …
I wondered about sending this email out — after all, any association with Bronze Age Pervert (BAP) — the “fascist, steppe barbarian, nudist bodybuilding” leader of Frogtwitter — has tons of risk and very little reward. But I’m a curious guy, and we explore all sorts of ideas here. Also: I do not give a …
Today is an exciting day for me. My 30th birthday is in just a few days, and my wife has been planning some monumental surprise for me starting in the next 10 minutes. I didn’t really plan on doing anything, since I thought I would be in France for it a couple of months ago …
A couple of you have been asking me what I think about the #MeToo movement and the sexual harassment allegations flying around. I know it’s a hot topic, and I probably should have said more on it earlier — content 101 is discuss what’s relevant. Yet for the most part, I’ve avoided giving comment. The …
About a year ago I wrote a two-part article on the difference between Dominance and Seduction. (Read: Part 1 & Part 2) It’s a topic that fascinates me to this day. The main question that still remains for me is how it plays into game. Let me take you down my line of inquiry… I consider both Dominance …
Hey hey, I’m back. Thanks for waiting around. The last 6-7 weeks have been good for me. A lot of changes inside and out, and I’m finally ready to get back in the writing game. Today I want to talk about the interplay between Personality and Persona. As you know, Personality is your psychological type, psychological health, …
Looks like we’re moving into the big leagues! In December this site got reviewed by Hayley Matthews, Editor-In-Chief at DatingAdvice.com The article was a great look at how I got to where I am today and some of my philosophy of “what’s important” when it comes to helping men. Take a look: http://www.datingadvice.com/for-men/pat-stedman-a-holistic-approach-to-improve-dating-mindsets
