About a year ago I wrote a two-part article on the difference between Dominance and Seduction. (Read: Part 1 & Part 2) It’s a topic that fascinates me to this day. The main question that still remains for me is how it plays into game. Let me take you down my line of inquiry… I consider both Dominance […]
Is Seduction Masculine? Read More »
Hey hey, I’m back. Thanks for waiting around. The last 6-7 weeks have been good for me. A lot of changes inside and out, and I’m finally ready to get back in the writing game. Today I want to talk about the interplay between Personality and Persona. As you know, Personality is your psychological type, psychological health,
Can You Be Emotional and Masculine? Read More »
Looks like we’re moving into the big leagues! In December this site got reviewed by Hayley Matthews, Editor-In-Chief at DatingAdvice.com The article was a great look at how I got to where I am today and some of my philosophy of “what’s important” when it comes to helping men. Take a look: http://www.datingadvice.com/for-men/pat-stedman-a-holistic-approach-to-improve-dating-mindsets
Review of Pat Stedman by DatingAdvice.Com Read More »
WHAT IS #UPSTREAM? There have been a lot of comments and questions about #UpstreamTwitter in recent days — what it entails, what we stand for, what we hope to achieve. We appreciate the interest. But I’ll admit, although the the group nominated me to take a stab at it — these aren’t easy questions to
What Is #Upstream? Read More »
PART 2: PSYCHOLOGICAL ATTRACTION As we discussed in Part 1, pheromones and intelligence lay the ground work for Chemistry to occur. But it is psychology itself that brings two people together, and that is what we will explore now. Our minds are wired in distinct ways, and that wiring determines whether we are drawn to
Personality – The Third Pillar of Attraction (Part 2 – Psychological Attraction) Read More »
The other day a tragedy happened. A good friend of my wife and I — one of the coolest, most loving, funny people we knew — died. He was 35. The cause? Alcoholism. He got checked into the hospital earlier this summer with cirrhosis, and almost died then. The rest of the summer he was
The Cost Of Numbing Yourself Read More »
THE WAY FORWARD In case you missed it, there were some great thoughts by La Playboy in response to my article on the ultimate imperative. Basically, La Playboy took issue with my emphasis on marriage, making the point that most men already prefer to have a family, and that for the rest, there are alternative
THE ULTIMATE IMPERATIVE If you’ve been around our corner of the internet, you’ve probably heard the term “feminine imperative” — coined by the highly influential and insightful Rollo Tomassi — thrown around. For the uninitiated, the feminine imperative is essentially the execution of a woman’s sexual strategy: to sleep with a man who is dominant
The Ultimate Imperative Read More »
You ever go online to search for something specific and then end up reading or watching something completely different? Rhetorical question, I know 😉 Well, today I found myself in that trap, unintentionally watching clips of World War One trench warfare. Most of the scenes were the usual: a bunch of young men waiting to
How You Get Programmed To Kill People Read More »
Embracing Death A few days ago my wife had a dream that I died. I had had a heart attack. Collapsed right in front of her. I won’t lie, I found it a little funny. I have a relatively morbid sense of humor and don’t take my own death too seriously. But she could barely
How Embracing Death Improves Relationships Read More »
