It’s become apparent over the years that my style is quite different from most of the typical dating coaches. Despite the evolution of “the industry” away from negs, canned PUA routines, etc… people are still grounding themselves in the numbers game. More focus on strategy (physique, lifestyle, masculinity) vs tactics (peacocking, status-faking, game), but still […]
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“I admire hard work. But it isn’t my gift. And while I will continue to improve my discipline… it never will be. Only once I accepted this did I start to make money. Who understands why?” I tweeted this out the other day and promised to explain why on here (I save the best of
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So all these emails got pushed back because of a couple of incidents I was not expecting. First, I had to run to a wedding way sooner than anticipated. And so my email on work & money was left 30% unfinished. Second, I got poisoned at said wedding. Which completely took me out of commission
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Friday night my wife was at a work function and I was a little “socialed” out, so I decided to stay at home, have a few gin and tonics, and watch a war movie. (I had planned on something sophisticated like The Thin Red Line, but I cheapened out and went for Saving Private Ryan.
As you know, I took a break from Twitter and this list last week. Some of it was family-time. Some of it was an already filled-up coaching schedule. The rest of it? Recalibrating my thoughts. I started working with a mentor, and he’s already significantly impacting my outlook on things…crystallizing some ideas that I’ve been
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A common adage in the dating scene is “opposites attract, but they don’t stay together” There’s a lot of truth to this expression. “Opposite” personalities are generally incompatible… they interact with the world in different ways. So while relationships are possible, they aren’t natural. And yet, such people often get together. What gives? Nothing too crazy,
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Yesterday we talked about sex and enlightenment. Today we’re going to talk about it too. As you know, I think most psychological growth comes from deep, intimate relationships. The reason for that is simple. People you spend time with hold a mirror up to you. And the closer you get to someone, the more they
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Coming at least somewhat from “red pill” circles — and yet being a significant critic of the red pill ethos — I’m a bit of a contradiction, at least at first glance. Outsiders think I’m red pill because my views don’t align with the mainstream. “Insiders” call me an apostate because I’ve attacked key figures
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Yesterday we talked about authenticity, and how many are just play-acting the trait. But even genuine authenticity isn’t the be-all-end all in attraction. Indeed… if it’s not packaged correctly, it can even be a liability. The reason? Authentic people act boring. Now, are they ACTUALLY boring? I don’t know. A lot of people seem boring,
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With the rise of the “personal brand,” everybody’s been talking about authenticity. I’m happy about it, too. Authentic people are more enjoyable to be around, and it’s good for business — authenticity is correlated with the deep work I do with clients. But there’s a trap that many people who want to be “authentic” fall into.
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