The other day I tweeted a thread about The Red Pill (TRP) applying primarily to damaged women, and won’t work for emotionally healthy girls… though indicated within it that *most* women are indeed damaged, and that the number of these is growing. Subsequently, a follower made an observation: “This point seems undermined by your admission […]
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It’s funny being in relationships with women. Even the most “level headed” girls go through emotional swings for seemingly no reason. It’s usually pretty annoying. We’re feeling great and then she comes over pissy about something. Bad energy, ruining our good vibes. So we want to solve it. We want to make her happy, because
I was talking to a (potential) client recently about an interesting thing: trust and relationships. (If you want to consider working with me, go here: www.patstedman.com/application) Truth be told, it’s not something I’ve gone over too much with clients to date. Most guys who work with me want to learn game, want to get their minds
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Dread Game, especially dread game focused on Persona, might be the most controversial piece of advice in TRP canon. For the uninitiated, Dread Game is effectively raising your “sexual market value” and then putting yourself on the market, or at least giving the impression of that possibility to the woman in your life. It’s basically
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I work with a wide range of clients from all around the world. It’s made me realize the ways men are both the same, in how women orient them — and different — in personalities, values, backgrounds. Ergo, something I have to be constantly aware of is not to project my own beliefs onto others.
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Years ago, back in my aimless college years, I worked with a couple of professors on a “strategic threat assessment” for the US government. Basically, our job was to use our knowledge of geopolitics to look at areas the US was at risk internationally over the next 20 years. This involved the usual checks of
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You’ve probably heard me talk about Personality quite a bit by this point. Two terms I throw around a lot with it are “integrated” and “healthy.” But what do these terms mean? Are they just filler words? No, they’re not, but I am guilty for not explaining them. Integrated is a term that comes out depth
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One thing you get used to in the self-improvement circles is everybody opining on what you “have” to do. Pretty much every day I see comments like the following: “This is the schedule you should follow to make your day efficient.” “This is the workout you need to use if you want to get ripped.”
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When it comes to “having a feminine woman,” most conversation in our corner of the internet revolves around making sure you pick the right woman. I agree, just as a sculptor needs to choose his block of marble carefully, you must choose your woman with the same level of discernment. But also like a sculptor,
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One term that always confused me a bit was “emotional cheating.” Maybe confused isn’t the right word, but the whole thing seemed a bit weird. Is it when someone gets close to regular cheating but holds themselves back? Is it simply a lesser form of cheating? Or is it something else entirely? I’ve started to
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