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Bronze Age Mindset

I wondered about sending this email out — after all, any association with Bronze Age Pervert (BAP) — the “fascist, steppe barbarian, nudist bodybuilding” leader of Frogtwitter — has tons of risk and very little reward. But I’m a curious guy, and we explore all sorts of ideas here. Also: I do not give a […]

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Breaking Bad Beliefs

“The reason you’re not successful is because you don’t want to be. And until you examine and eliminate that belief there’s nothing anybody can do for you.” I tweeted this out the other day, as it’s been on my mind recently. I’m fascinated by beliefs. There is something literally magical to them. Energy that lurks

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1 Lesson From 30 Years

I turned 30 today. I should probably have a multitude of “wisdom snippets” for all of you — various things I’ve learned over the years. But I’m going to save those snippets for my clients. The truth is what I’ve learned over over the past decade, since I started on this path of understanding attraction

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Birthday Surprise

Today is an exciting day for me. My 30th birthday is in just a few days, and my wife has been planning some monumental surprise for me starting in the next 10 minutes. I didn’t really plan on doing anything, since I thought I would be in France for it a couple of months ago

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“Enough”

There are a LOT of things I need to learn about marketing and sales, so I hardly speak on this as an expert. But while I keep myself in the mind of you guys, I never push my services. The reason for this isn’t hesitation on my end. I love clients. (And not just the money.)

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Mommy Girlfriend

We’ve talked about hard women the last few days, this will be our last exploration for the time being. I want to talk about a strange but growing phenomenon in the west… Perhaps you’ve heard of them. They certainly got some press. Cougar cruises. Basically, young guys getting comped vacations with old women, to keep

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The Virtues of Hard Women

We spoke yesterday about hard men and soft women. But what about hard women? Do they have a place, romantically? The answer: It depends. (a frustrating answer, I know) We’ll talk about one growing niche for such women tomorrow, but historically they’ve actually been quite important… at least in militaristic societies. These societies cultivate hardness.

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Why Men Are Tough

Yesterday on Twitter, Kathryn Hogan (@KathrynmHogan – great follow BTW) responded to my tweet with an interesting question. Me: “A woman can only be soft if her man is hard. Most modern men are not up to the challenge.” Her: “Do you think this is a goes both ways thing? That a man can’t be hard

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